secrets of… Pleasure and Pain

BE AN ICE QUEEN

Get him to smooth an ice cube around your nipples or your labia, clitoris and vagina. Afterwards he can make you melt by dripping warm (but not hot) water directly onto your clitoris. Or he can lick you after taking a sip of hot tea.

GIVE HIM GLOVE LOVE

Blindfold him, lay him flat on his back and then stroke his erect penis with different types of gloves. Try a leather glove, a rubber glove, a woollen mitten or – my personal favourite – an elbow-length silk glove.

SPANK HIM

Softly caress his naked bum with your palm. Then give him two light taps followed by two hard spanks. Then go back to soft caresses. Always aim for the anal area – never the tailbone – and keep your hand slightly curved.

PLAY WITH DIFFERENT SENSATIONS

Use feathers to stroke, fingernails to scratch or fingers to pinch. Take it in turns to wear a blindfold to heighten sensitivity.

GIVE HIM A HOT SURPRISE

Lay him down for a candlelit massage, then pick up the candle and use it to drip wax on him from the nape of his neck to the cleft of his buttocks. Rub the wax sensuously into his body. Caution: use only “massage candles” (the wax melts at a lower temperature than normal candles).