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Reading Group Guide for Promises of the Heart

  1. At the beginning of the book, Macey’s heart seems set against adoption. What reasons does she give? Do you agree with her thinking? Why or why not?
  2. Through Harper’s experience, we get a glimpse of the foster care system. Does this justify Macey’s wariness about becoming a foster parent?
  3. How do Ben and Macey’s personalities differ? Do you agree with the adage that opposites attract?
  4. Harper has been bounced from one foster home to another, and, as a result, she has an attitude that makes her difficult to place. Around Cora, though, she acts differently. What changes do you notice in her personality when she’s with Cora? Why do you think she’s willing to open up?
  5. Harper and Macey both struggle with not being able to control the things happening in their lives. What are some of these events and how do they cope?
  6. Why does Harper run away? What does she learn from this experience, and why does she decide to return to Cora’s?
  7. Macey and Maeve are as close as two sisters can be, but, like any sisters, they have their differences. In what way(s) do the two girls differ?
  8. Although Grandy passed away when Macey was a young girl, she plays a significant role in Macey’s life and in the book. In what way(s) does she influence Macey and affect Macey’s decisions? What does Grandy’s voice represent for Macey? Reflecting on your own life, do you have a loved one—living or dead—whose voice you carry with you? Why do you think that is? What role does this voice play in your life?
  9. Ben’s unwillingness to take chances is often a bone of contention. What are some examples of this, and in what ways does he change? What thoughts or events trigger these changes?
  10. Much like Ben, Harper is very cautious, but she slowly opens up to the Samuelsons. What key moments lead up to her ultimately taking a chance on being adopted? How do the changes she goes through complement Ben’s?
  11. Harper is like Macey in many ways. In fact, Ben says that if he and Macey had had a biological daughter, she’d be just like Harper. What does he mean?
  12. What role does Keeper play in the story? Do you think Harper would have adjusted to her new home without him? Why do you think Harper loves animals so much?
  13. Faith and giving are two central themes in the book. In what ways do characters give, and how are they blessed in return?
  14. The book begins and ends with the image of a candle in the window. What does the candle symbolize? How is the tradition of keeping a single candle in a window realized in this story?
  15. Have you ever felt nudged to step out of your comfort zone to do something positive? Did you take the step? Why or why not? Do you regret your decision? image