part0017

W hat if Maria falls in love with her mark, what if she finds a trick that proves to be her equal or falls for a sponsor that has just gotten divorced and is ready to have more than just a trophy that he spoils? You can’t predict which way the heart will lead you, but you have to keep this strictly business. The moment you allow your mind to race to that fairytale land where Edward the emotionally detached millionaire drives up in the limo, faces his fear of heights, and sweeps Vivian the whore off her feet, you will start to focus on that more than your come up. If you want love, then you don’t need Ho Tactics, you need to Spartan Up and find a real man who you build and prosper with—go read Men Don’t Love Women Like You . This is the Ho world, you want money, you want to be pampered, you want to become successful using the finances or fame of someone else; therefore, you must always put money over dick, play your position, and commit to that way of thinking. This man isn’t a potential boyfriend or husband, he’s a trick, and even if he settles down with you, he’ll always have trick blood in his veins, and that means you become a woman that can be replaced by a younger, prettier, and smarter Ho .

I’m sure the biggest follow-up question will still be, “People change, and I know I could keep him from wondering if we were to be in a real relationship,” That’s admirable and there are countless cases of tricks who settled for a woman that started off as a Ho working him. Hos do evolve into housewives like those I wrote about in Solving Single because they are real people that have skill sets that will always make them fun to be around regardless if they are on the clock or retired. You will find a husband, you will find a boyfriend, and you will find love, but I ask that you wait until you retire from Hoing or pick someone you didn’t start out hustling. If NBA players can fall in love with groupies, then Hos, who are much smarter than those starfuckers, have the ability to capture a baller’s heart for the long run as well. However, it should be a real love, not a long-term hustle because you got comfortable and didn’t want to let go of your mark. Chapter 18: How to Go from Ho to Housewife covers this best-case scenario retirement, but let’s focus on the normal Ho exit strategy for the following two scenarios…

Your Ho hustle should last until you get those things you wrote down at the beginning of this journey, but in case of emergency, you must be ready to walk away with nothing. When you have milked this man for everything you wanted, begin to lay the seeds of discontent. Fake arguments where you make him out to have offended you or pressured you will put the “break up” on him and give you an out without having to be the bad guy. Reverse psychology continues to be your best friend when pushing a man away: He’s been acting distant. All he does is pressure you for sex. He doesn’t act the same as he did when you first met. It’s all bullshit, but when you say it with conviction a man will think, “damn, am I doing those things?” There are all kinds of mindfucks you can pull off that make it seem as if you two are no good for each other, but remember that your Ho power can boomerang. This man is most likely so smitten that he will try to make it up to you no matter if your excuse is real or fantasy. A mark knows what you react to—gifts. He will keep trying to buy you back, which means you must be prepared to walk away without being overly greedy. You got what you came for; just because he’s dangling a matching Rolex if you stay doesn’t mean you circle back. If you circle back once, you will do it twice, and at that point, a man knows he has power over your exit.

The best way to end a relationship with a mark is to borrow a page out of a man’s book and slow fade out of existence. You’ve gotten busy with work; you’re going through family troubles, or the classic excuse that you need space. Excuses once again become your friend and doing things slowly will help you milk car payments or things he’s already promised to give you. Eventually, he’ll stop helping you out altogether, but sometimes it’s better to let a relationship like this decay than to decapitate it. From an emotional standpoint the more you distance yourself the less in love he will be with that fun Ho side because he’s not seeing it anymore. This frees this trick up to go find someone to replace you, and like all men, once he has a new hobby, you will be forgotten and free to go on to your next hustle without him annoying you with “I miss you” texts.

It could get tense once he sees the writing on the wall while still infatuated with you. He may take inventory of all the things he’s done for you and realize he got gamed. Indian giving is legit, and a heartbroken man may look up past bills, feel dumb, and want to let you know that you aren’t shit. I remind you that he can’t take you to court for receiving gifts; the judge will laugh his dumb ass out of the courtroom. A mark won’t want to tell the world that he got hustled either, so don’t worry about him popping up at your job or blasting you on the internet, but he can yell at you one on one and try to break you down in order to get satisfaction. Don’t argue with a trick that becomes bitter and don’t be a Tanya and reveal your hustle out of anger or confrontation.

When a trick tries to throw all the stuff he’s done for in your face, play offended. Remind him that he did those things willingly, that he was supposed to be your friend, and continue to make him feel guilty about insinuating that it was all a hustle. This isn’t to get back with him; it’s to leave him doubting that you were indeed a Ho. He may have come to his senses after seeing the receipts for the last four months, but so long as you maintain your humanity, he will always have doubt. After this man cools down, he’ll most likely second guess his own anger and go back to thinking you were the best woman he ever had. Eventually, he will forget about the things he spent money on and become fixated on how much fun he had with you. The money is never important, the memory is what stays! If he has doubts that you were a Ho that means the doors to his heart and wallet are still cracked open, and maybe in a year you can come back in and re-up with this mark for something new.

Regardless of how you leave it, by making him seem like an asshole, by slow fading from his world, or by running out of his life the moment you get discovered, the point is to understand that all good hustles come to an end. This lifestyle is built on too many lies to keep it going forever. Don’t get greedy and don’t revert to a love-sick basica who wants to turn a mark into a long-term savior. Recognize when you’ve won or when you can’t get anything from this man, and walk away .

The key to the first part of this book is not to have sex, not even after you get what you want unless he’s a man you would have sex with for free under normal circumstances. Literally, ask yourself, “Would I fuck him if he hadn’t spoiled me?” If you even have to consider this for half a second, then you have no business having sex or giving him the pussy as the ultimate reward. Guilt prostituting is still prostituting. There are dozens of Gold-Digging 101 books or Sugar Baby manuals these days, nearly all written by women who sleep with men for money. That’s not hustling, that’s trafficking. I felt a duty to share this information in a way that promotes the intelligent clothes on method over the clothes off escorting that causes you to sell your soul instead of your company. Men will only give so much without getting what they want, but the genius of Hos (not an oxymoron) is that they move so stealthily that by the time a man realizes what’s going on they’ve already won, and moved on. This part of the book is all you need to achieve your mission. No sex, no oral favors, no taking your clothes off, period.

As we move into the second part things become more sexual orientated because most women aren’t dick disciplined or they reach a level where they no longer feel like making excuses about sex. Having sex can get you a lot more over a longer period, but it’s a gamble dependent on how good you are in bed. There will be much to learn in terms of using sex as a weapon, and how to turn old pussy into new money, but again, this first part of the book is the safest! You can use these tactics to be a serial Ho or hit one lick up and be done with that lifestyle; it’s your life to live. I only ask that you stay smart, keep your panties up, and never fall in love with your trick. For the rest of you who don’t mind using sex, then continue reading because the hunt is about to get nasty…