part0021

I s sex all a woman is good for? Of course not. As a female, you can fill a Wikipedia page with all the qualities that make you more than a hole whose purpose is to supply a man with a good nut. However, you set yourself up for failure if you don’t acknowledge how the opposite sex views you in their head. When a man first spots you, the want to have sex with you is the glue that makes him notice you in a room full of others, pay attention during conversation, and attempt to impress you. What does he want from you, why is he being nice to you, why is he joking around with you—sex is the magnet! The more you dangle this fantasy over his head, the more a man will salivate. Smart Hos dangle the Coochie Carrot so close that a man can smell it, literally, knowing that a man who gets worked up with lust will be putty in her hands. Lust driven men will do anything to seal the deal. Take you out, buy you things, promise their intentions are honest, be on their best behavior for months, even commit to a monogamous relationship .

Nevertheless, lust for sex is not the same as love for a woman, but a hard-pressed man will make you into a believer. Naïve women give in to lust courting because they feel wanted as if it were true love, but after a man has sex with a girl; she loses that initial New Pussy Power. Men can be Hos too, and most of them apply Dick Tactics during the lust courting stage, stooping to all kinds of devious tricks just to get a few minutes of sexual pleasure. Why did he lie, I would have still had sex if he told the truth . Maybe you would have, maybe not.

Men don’t have time to take chances, so they make up false lives, withhold relationship status, and create elaborate excuses to keep you in check. Men crossed the morality line centuries ago, and since then it has been in their best interest to play this pussy hustle game to keep women easy prey. Men are so good at this that even those women that have read the first part of Ho Tactics have fallen for Dick Tactics and given in to their sexual desires. Some women take that to mean that they ruined their chances and that all the things they read are now worthless because of one horny mistake. False! You can still apply everything you learned, be it with an ex-boyfriend or a mark that outsmarted you in a moment of weakness. Let’s go back to who you are as a person. Is your personality electrifying like Maria or are you dry as hell? If you’re shy, demure, and boring then a man will shrug you off as soon as he wakes up from his post nut slumber. Your personality wasn’t what was driving him to call and take you out; it was your unexplored pussy that had him blowing up your phone and dying to see you. Only after sex can he lay in bed the next night by himself and be honest about how he views you—“She’s not all that.” Hos are always “all that” because they operate on the mental plane more so than the physical. Some of you mistake these tactics for learning how to lie and be fake. False! It’s strategy dependent on knowing how men think before and after sex .

Hos exploit lust courting because they recognize that it’s all a male game. Even after sex, they can still regain their balance like Gabby Douglas teetering on that beam. The secret weapon isn’t to have more sex or cross the line into fetish sex; it’s the ability to go beyond the physical, and jerk a man off mentally to the point of no return. It’s no longer about the mystery of your box; it’s about the magic inside. Any smart person understands that real magic is nothing more than a well-executed illusion.

All women fuck the same way. Yes, even you Ms. “I made him cum in 13 seconds” and you Ms. “All I did was let him stick the tip in and zzzzz,” your vaginas don’t do anything new or innovative. The same way you ride dick, your grandmother rode dick. The same way you slurp on a penis head will be just as effective as the way your niece will slurp on one after prom in five years. Don’t suck your teeth or search your phone for some guy to prove that I’m wrong because any man that has fucked you or wants to, will side with you having a magical pussy. Unlike men, there is no “bigger is better” or “motion in the ocean” debate with women. Tight vagina or loose vagina doesn’t even matter because Kegels or six months of penis detox can get you back to 22-year-old pussy status. You can ride it from the back, front, sit on furniture, bend over backseats, or dig nails into his back, but what you are doing can be replicated by any woman that has seen porn. It’s time to step up your sex game and show him something those other bitches can’t do! Every girl has made a man cum quick. Every girl has had a man call her “the best.” It’s common because men are easy to please and gross exaggerators when in the grip of ecstasy. Instead of tooting your horn about how fast you made some lame bust a nut, figure out how you can further separate yourself from the pack .

I’m not referring to gimmicks like toys or squirting, I’m talking about what you do before, during, and after sex to set this man on fire! In the kingdom of shy submissive, lay me on my back and give it to me , women—the verbalizer is Queen. Hos aren’t afraid to talk. Not only does this help when it comes time to walk over and pull a mark or ask for favors from a trick, it sets her apart from the average boring lay. This isn’t about talking dirty; that’s only one aspect of Ho sex game. To conquer his mind and become the most memorable sex ever, you have to set him up then finish him with certain techniques. What are these before, during, and after techniques? I’m glad you asked.

What’s the most important thing about a championship fight? It’s not the fighters or the venue; it’s the hype leading up to the fight that determines if a man travels to see that Mayweather fight versus streaming it for free. Life is built on the foundation of unique experiences, and fight promoters understand that “once in a lifetime” or the feeling that anything can happen, is a selling point that can’t be beat. New Pussy IS hype; it’s all buildup, and even if that girl is a corny lay, the man still feels like it was time well spent because it was a new conquest. Again, men aren’t picky, ejaculating feels good—always. So even if it was too fast, awkward, or just vanilla, he’s going to leave smiling. Now you’re going to use his bias against him. Once you cross over into the Old Pussy side of the field, you must sell the old not as if it’s new, but as if it’s going to be better than the first time. The next time this guy sees you is WrestleMania, and even though he’s experienced The Rock Vs. Stone Cold once before, you must make him feel it in his soul that this time is going to blow the roof off !

We’ve already been over the “It wasn’t that good, it could be better” rhetoric; this is much different. You can continue to tease a man before you meet, but that’s not going to drive him crazy enough to start tricking as if he’s never tasted you before. The true promotion begins the second time you decide to fuck him. Most women have sex spontaneously, they rarely plan to give it to a man; they just plan when they are not going to give to him. Sure, they shave their coochies in a loose preparation, but most girls play the bystander, simply waiting for a man to go for it. You can no longer play by the shy rules of “Maybe I’ll give him some if the night goes well.” Be in control! Your job is to set the time and place, then go about the promotion so by the time the night arrives he’s worked up to the point of combustion.

Let’s say this second sex session is going to go down on a Friday. That Tuesday you set the date and start to promote it as one where he should plan to stay out all night. Thursday, you confirm it and tell him you went shopping for underwear. That Friday morning you make the final push by teasing him in a way where it makes it seems like you’re beyond excited. This could be sending a picture of you sucking a banana talking about, “Training for our date.” It could be sending a screen grab from a porn movie or a ratchet sex meme. Men are extremely easy to seduce via sexual visuals, so go for the kill as soon as you wake up, and he’s going to be thirsting the rest of the day. That’s 3 and a half days of ego stroking, sex teasing, and genuine mind-fucking. Doesn’t matter if he’s already started to feel as if you’re not all that or if he’s a busy man who plans on standing you up, he will be at that date with bells on because you’ve once again made your vagina a special attraction .

The last stage before the bedroom is to talk to him before he leaves the house, or you leave your home to meet, then threaten to pull out. A man doesn’t know how bad he wants a woman until she’s pulled from under him. Tease him that you’re not going to meet up tonight, and make up a legit excuse. Don’t joke, get into it as if you may not come… then reveal that you’re punking him at the moment where he’s about to say, “Man, fuck you!” He’ll breathe a sigh of relief, and then you can work him back up. Escalate the build up by acting out a real-life fantasy. If you two are going to meet at your place, then you’re already playing with yourself and asking, “Do you think you can make me cum before you get here?” If he’s at his place and you’re driving over, give him play by play about how you’re fingering yourself in traffic. The point is to get in his head and make him reveal how much he wants what you are promising him. Once you know that he’s really invested, get nasty and creative in order to push him to his limit before the date even begins.

Men love to be worked up, but they hate foreplay. The only reason the majority of males even go through the motions of taking it slow is that society has forced it on us harder than an Iggy Azalea song. Cinemax after dark movies showed little boys that they needed to suck and rub until a woman is in full blow moan… Silk sang slow jams about licking a girl up and down until she said, “Stop!” Growing up I thought you had to do those things to get a woman wet, this idea that a woman can walk into a room already soaking was foreign. So, if you don’t need a man to build you up, why waste time? Yo ur job is to create the illusion that you are the fantasy of all fantasies. Foreplay is good, but it’s usually for the benefit of the female orgasm. Again, your job is to be for his benefit so you become invaluable going forward. Ice cubes, stomach licking, cock stroking… those are typical things women like to do to turn on a man. Nearly every man has had whipped cream sprayed on him because it’s a movie cliché. Ever sit in a hair salon and hear that older woman tell freaky stories about the things she does to men? It’s greeted with blushing because 90% of women are following the same turn-on playbook. That playbook is bullshit! For this sex date you must become that 10% of women that innovates.

I remember the only girl to suck my toes. I don’t remember all the routine blowjobs I’ve had over the years, but I remember the girl that slapped her face with that spit-soaked dick while talking filthy. I also remember the girl that ran to her purse, got her vibrator, and told me to go harder while she played with her clit. They weren’t Hos, but they made an impression because they did something different. When you’re dealing with a well-off man who is most likely in his late 20’s on up, he’s not going to be impressed by giving him impassioned head. Fingering your vagina won’t raise an eyebrow the same way as if you were to finger your ass then suck your fingers would. There are levels to nastiness, but all you need to do is pull ONE rabbit out of the hat for him to be like, “Damn, she’s a freak.” Remember this is a guy you’ve already had sex with, who has already judged you, who doesn’t need your pussy. This date changes all of that. Being overly filthy is important because it sets the limit at no limits .

If you pull a dick out of the condom and rub the cum on your lips, next time you may tell him to remove the condom and cum in your mouth. If you’re willing to accidentally lick near his ass while giving him a nut-to-shaft blowjob, the next time you may go full ass to mouth. This isn’t about your sexual fantasy; it’s about projecting his fantasy in order to cement the fact that if he keeps you around long enough, there is nothing your nasty ass won’t do! What he doesn’t know is that before you go to that next level of freakiness, you’ll have gotten in his pockets.

There is no blueprint for how to talk nasty during the act of sex. Each person reacts differently, and what a person does or doesn’t react to is as personality driven as what they do or don’t like on their pizza. I’ve listened to so-called sex experts mislead women by telling them to fake moan, not taking into account that some men are annoyed by over exaggerated moans or panting. The same goes for talking dirty, not all men are going to want to dominate you by calling you names like bitch or whore . Having sex is like playing an instrument; just because you’ve been playing piano since the age of sixteen doesn’t mean you’re going to make that guitar sing the first time you pick it up. This is the second time having sex with this guy, which means it’s time to do research on what he’s into sexually . You must feel how his body reacts when you pull different sexual strings.

The bedroom is now your testing ground. If he’s into the moan for the first five minutes, don’t stay with it; yell out something nasty like, “Harder motherfucker!” If he gets excited, that was what he really wants. If he doesn’t really respond to being dominating or you feel him turtle up with awkwardness, then go back to the moan. This is an exploration, test out the new then go back to the old if it’s not working. If the nasty yells don’t move him, try the nasty whisper technique. In a low voice, similar to how you have phone sex, be submissive. If he speeds up or starts groaning, then that’s his thing. Do you see what’s going on? You’re testing dominance, submission, and even the generic just lay there, corpse technique to see what he responds to the most. Do not be afraid to branch out and be creative. Sucking on your own nipples, rubbing your clit, squeezing his balls, those are all good things but don’t forget to be verbal in some way.

What you want to get to are the six magic words that will make him happier than a Basic Bitch at a Gucci outlet. In your loud dominate voice, your whisper voice, or from the standard moan, you must say, “You’re about to make me cum !” There is no man alive that won’t upgrade his stroke or release the nut he’s been holding back when he hears that. Predict when he’s about to finish, and without overacting or sounding Jenna Jameson fake, hit him with, “You made me cum again.” Contrary to popular belief, men don’t just want a nut; they want to make you nut because that’s the ultimate pat on the back. I doubt that he makes you climax for real, but that isn’t the point, it’s the fantasy of satisfying you sexually that you want to get across. Make him finish up in a manner where he feels as if he owns your G-Spot. You don’t do that with positions or toys, you do that with those six words .

Hos solidify their value after sex. Post-sex pillow talk finds a man at his most vulnerable if the sex was satisfying. Again, I’m not talking about whether or not he came, of course he came. What’s satisfying is that he feels as if he turned you out by making you cum. The reason a man will get washed up and leave or give you a hint that he has to work in the morning and that you should leave is because he doesn’t feel you’re necessary anymore.

Pussy is worthless to a soft dick, so why would any man want to cuddle with Pussy once its job is done? As a Smart Ho you built this man up, let him dominate your vagina, and now he’s lying next to you with a smile, bathing in that glory. No man wants to leave when he feels like he’s on top. This is where you get into his brain. Tell him how you’ve never felt that kind of orgasm and that it must have been because your body was used to him this time around. All bullshit, but it makes this man think that he was the first to take you the top of Space Mountain. Once you pay homage to this imagined god sex, he will wind down and be as docile as a housewife on Quaaludes. It doesn’t matter what you say specifically, the main point you need to get across is that you want the simplicity of what you just had. Make up a story about how your girlfriends always get attached after sex, they start tripping, and ruin a good thing. You want to assure this man that his sex and company is all you want: Joke around, fuck like porn stars, and then chill .

One Ho that I’m friends with told me that she plays video games with her trick because he loves that “one of the boys” feeling after fucking. That’s what I mean by thinking outside of the box; sometimes just talking isn’t good enough. Maybe you take something he’s into and bring it up or do it afterward. Don’t try too hard because if you aren’t into that it will seem fake. No matter if you want to grab that Xbox controller, build LEGOs or ask to turn on Sportscenter, you have to make sure that he’s having a good time. A man won’t remember your pussy twenty minutes later, but he will remember how much fun you were before, during, and after. Do not be afraid to stand out using the brainpower in your head as opposed to the flexibility in your legs.

Having sex is a gamble, unlike the tactics laid out in the first part of the book, this route is not guaranteed to make him trick. However, if you follow the sex promotion rule, get filthy in bed, and then lead this man to believe that he gave you the orgasm of your life, the odds are in your favor. The final step in getting back on track and making your old pussy even more desirable than before is to ration it out. No matter who else he’s fucking or how busy he is, if you really put it on him the way I told you to put it on him, he will come running back for more. The thought of you will make him hard, the sound of your voice will make him even harder… that’s not from you touching him or saying anything perverted, it the result of his body becoming addicted to what you did to him during that second sex session.

I’ve experienced this several times and couldn’t understand what was going on. It wasn’t love, and the lust shouldn’t have been stronger than before since I already had her. What I failed to comprehend was that good sex isn’t about the physical sex; it’s about leaving a mental tattoo on the brain. He can go have sex with another girl or watch porn, but his dick will not get as hard as it got with you. His blood will not race the same way it races when he looks at a picture of you. You are no longer a girl he had sex with; you are a Heroin fix that he needs an injection of to get back to normal. What do you do with someone that’s addicted to what you have to offer? You raise the price! He got a few testers, now he has to spend. It’s an unsaid rule that you don’t barter like a prostitute, you ask with the underlying hint that if he doesn’t look out for you, then you have nothing to talk about.

He will want to meet up with you within the next few days after you blew his mind. Be careful not to ask for things right after sex or even the day after. Post-sex favor asking only works once you establish in his mind that you’re not Hoing. Asking for a couple hundred dollars for shoes right after he cums will raise suspicions. Suddenly needing money to get your car fixed the next day will make him delete your number. Do not rush this! He will push to have sex again, and when he does, establish the rules going forward.

If he wants to see you, say you want to see him too, but this time, you want to go out to a nicer place before going back to his place. This is a test to see if the pussy was as good as you thought it was. If he makes an excuse about just wanting to chill or being too tired to put in the effort to go out for real, decline his offer to chill and find an excuse to get off the phone. Remember, everything in this is about doing research before going for the kill! If your bedroom theatrics worked, he will fall in line and take you anywhere you want to go. If he gives you a “take it or leave it” attitude, then abort the mission. No matter how much sex you continue to have or how nasty you get, he’s never going to spend on you because he’s the type of man that is satisfied with having been inside you, not an addict that you can hook. As I said, it’s a gamble, if you don’t hook him, abort !

Let’s assume that you did hook him. Once he agrees to treat you to a date, bring back the Dick Discipline. Do something nasty in public or in the car, to keep him worked up, but you must not have sex with him again that fast, or he’ll think it will always come free. Over the course of the next few days is when you go for the smallest thing on your list and then build to the biggest. For example, if you ask for money for a spa day to prepare yourself for that date, and he gives you the run around, there will be no sex on that date. If he sends you the money or promises to give it to you when he sees you, and does, then that’s as telling as the old Headphone test. Sex is now a reward, never casual. Never shy away from punishing men. “He didn’t give me spa money, but he may not like me if I don’t have sex again on the next date.” No Basica, that’s not how it works. If he tells you “no” then you deny him. That way when you ask for something else, he will have to say “yes” because he just witnessed you turning him down on that date. Think don’t just react like a rookie!

After he passes that first test you will know if he’s a Trick, Treat, or Sponsor, so ask accordingly for what you want and don’t short change yourself. Let’s say he’s a Trick, and you want a plane ticket to go spend the weekend with your girls in Miami. Plant a seed about this throughout your date or phone conversations. After the non-sex date, call him in trouble. You had to spend your paycheck getting your mother’s water heater fixed, and now you can’t go to Miami. Put on a Golden Globe worthy performance where you are so heartbroken about Miami that you don’t want to talk, flirt, or have fun with him. Good time girl is now sad time girl. How can he get you back to the point where you’re being fun and ready to have sex again? He must solve your problem !

Are you following? Hook him with epic sex. Test him out with a small favor to see if your sex worked. Reward him for giving, or punish him for not giving. Create a needy situation that requires him to save you, and then wait for him to offer. If he doesn’t offer on his own, ask directly for that favor in the little sister way we went over earlier in the book. This is the first challenge to see if this man is going to be a benefactor or remain some treat who thinks he can hit for Red Lobster. If he says, “Sorry, I don’t have plane ticket money.” Then it’s over. If he agrees to give you the money or any other favor you ask for, then he’s worth keeping. His reward for “looking out” will be another dip in your pool, but this time, it’s a tiny bit nastier. This is how Smart Hos use sex as a weapon. It’s not the vagina, it’s the experience that hooks him and makes him your junkie.