part0025

H os win because they live an enviable lifestyle that many women wish they could emulate. Each person’s definition of winning is different, and the area where many women wish they could win isn’t financially. They want the three A’s: Attention, Affection, and Appreciation . When I say, “Hos win”, it’s about those three A’s, because at the heart of female insecurity is the fact that Girl A managed to get a man to chase her with passionate desire and treat her like a Queen without doing much but providing him with verbal stimulation and mental cock-stroking. Whereas Girl B has worked hard to show that man that she’s honest, nurturing, and his equal, yet can’t get anything but promises and penis. While I am sure this book will have plenty of critics who misconstrue the theme of this book as something sneaky and underhanded; it is more empowering than any of these, “Wait For God To Show You Mr. Right Blah Blah Blah This Too Shall Pass ” teachings that would have you place your destiny in the hands of men rather than use your brain in the same way males have been doing for centuries .

The Three A’s are real, and most of you reading this have probably experienced frustration over your inability to attain that manner of treatment from men you find attractive. I talk to women every day of my life and I hear the war stories that they go through. I see how the younger generation of men are coming of age with little to no respect for women because the message of kitchen bitch submission has made many females docile and complacent.

Millennial men don’t see most women as smart, they see them as holes, and it’s not just guys born in the late 80’s or early 90’s, the older generation of men are seeing how easy it is to manipulate and swindle women out of pussy and following the lead of younger men. Dating is the Wild West, and women are being wiped out like Native Americans because they refuse to advance with the times and use modern warfare. What’s happened is there is a “Us versus Them” line drawn in the sand where women have become so turned off by male behavior that they give into bitterness and defensive arguments about the role of a man in their lives. I always hear, “Maybe if men knew how to appreciate a good woman instead of a bad bitch, kids would be raised right” or “Tell these men how they should act because we’re doing our part.” Those attitudes are born from frustration. Women are disgusted that men don’t behave the way they are supposed to behave. Meaning, if she treats him nice and respectful he should treat her the same. That will never happen because men will always have ulterior motives when choosing mates that have nothing to do with what woman holds him down or is most loyal! Instead of sitting back and watching beautiful women crumble because asshole after asshole rejects or discards them, I needed to show in the most blatant way possible, how any woman can win. It may require white lies, it may require you to forgo your Sunday School morality for a few weekends, but it unlocks real power in terms of confidence building and knowing your worth .

This book isn’t about getting anything from men, it’s about getting everything from life. Yes, you and your best friend are independent women who don’t need to mindfuck a man because you are self-sufficient. I’ll toast to that. You don’t need to get spoiled or sponsored because you can treat yourself to a spa day or a handbag. I’ll toast to that. Cheers all around because I love that “I’m both King and Queen” power. However, it would be foolish to ignore the truth. The truth is, there are many levels of female power and you shouldn’t stop learning them because you are a content career woman or married.

I don’t care what you believe in morally because your morals don’t dictate what does or doesn’t happen in real life. Someone told me early on in this process that she doesn’t like the thought of women lying to men, and that Ho Tactics are dangerous. I don’t like the thought of men lying to women, but guess what, all my male friends do it on a daily basis. It’s not about stooping to a male’s level, it’s about understanding that level in order to tap into this Ho power whenever you need it. Why should any woman want to tap into this power when she can stay on the straight and narrow and be a phenomenal woman? The straight and narrow is failing! The most honest and loving women out there are being strung along because they are taught to pray on it instead of understanding why they are being hustled. I’m sick and tired of seeing single mothers who do everything right, then end up falling for players. I’m sick of reading letters from women in their 30s who are still chasing the commitment carrot from the same bum that’s been popping in and out of their lives for years because they don’t think another man would want them at their age. There is so much power to be regained in relationships and marriages, even if you dip a little bit into the so-called dark side of Girl Power .

No matter the case I state for the necessity of Ho Power, there will be detractors who will feel I’ve gone too far because these tactics don’t mesh with their weak bitch programming. Some of you reading this may feel confused as to if you should or shouldn’t apply these techniques. As I said earlier, this isn’t about following Maria, it’s about understanding how you can be just as powerful as Maria in other aspects of your life. Those of you who read this book and grasp the lessons will change fundamentally even if you never pull a mark in your life. You will find a new level of confidence that will surprise you and even want to share it with friends who are immediately turned off by the mere title of “Ho Tactics” the same way the ignorant sucked their teeth when they saw the title Black Girls Are Easy . This is your journey, regardless of who shares it with you or criticizes you for it, you came to these pages to learn something new, and you have. It doesn’t stop here; you must keep reinforcing the lessons until your confidence is untouchable. I don’t care if you’re too soft to be a Spartan or too honest to be a Ho. This book is proof that you are not at the mercy of men, they are at the mercy of you if you take charge!

I want to dedicate this final section to those judgmental women that hide behind shallow Instagram quotes. Those critical females behind keyboards that have so much shade to throw at their sisters, but do little to progress womankind. Those women that believe in playing the victim because they don’t have the heart to be the conqueror… I want you to look into the mirror. You sit around talking about Hos but secretly admire their power. You look for any occasion to party and lose yourself so you can be less of a prude and have fun like The Hos . You go shopping for a Thot-fit that hugs your body in order to emulate the sexiness and attention received by The Hos . The high of saying, “I’m dressing like such a Ho tonight,” is the only way you can feel powerful and sexy. You drink too much, flirt too hard, and end up having sex under the cover of, “I felt like being a Ho for tonight." Only to wake up the next morning, back to talking shit about the women who did the same things you did the night before, but with better results. It’s time to be honest about what you lack in life, and stop hiding behind this wall of elitism. Look at Ms. Educated and thirsty… your life is so boring, so predictable, and so by the book that every weekend, summer, birthday, or special occasion you have to go act out like the type of woman you hate just so you can feel alive inside. In the end you won’t find love, you’ll find dick and excuses.

The moment you let these men brainwash you with fast talk and handsome grins, you become the mark! Men invented the art of manipulation because pussy is highly coveted . Lie, steal, cheat, lie some more… guys are willing to break all rules in pursuit of women. Men you swear are down for you are using Dick Tactics on you right now, and you’re too prideful to see it. Read and re-read the previous chapters until you understand how to win the way I laid out, or you will continue in the struggle cycle until you end up settling like so many before you. This book is not a call for you to go out and get money, it’s a call for everyone reading to think outside the box and understand how this world works. I love women, and it breaks my heart when I see them compete and tear each other down because they think finding a man to love is the most important thing in the world. You are the most important thing in the world, and love will come easily once you realize that you control your destiny! I didn’t write Ho Tactics to corrupt you morally, but I did write it to enlighten you mentally. Now that you’re awake, what are you going to do with all this knowledge?