Here I am “talking” with my parents on my first birthday in 1967, just a few months after Edie and Thea became engaged.

Aaron Belkin and me at our high school prom in Cleveland in 1987.

Sitting at Chief Judge Kaye’s desk (which previously belonged to Judge Benjamin Cardozo) during my clerkship.

Rachel Lavine and Emily Giske marching for the Gay & Lesbian Independent Democrats at New York’s Gay Pride Parade in 1995. New York Assemblymember Deborah Glick and LGBT activist Tom Schuler are with them.

Edie and Thea in August 1969, two years into their forty-year engagement. Courtesy of Edie Windsor

Edie at her job writing software for IBM. Courtesy of Edie Windsor

Edie and Thea at their Toronto wedding in 2007. Photograph by Virginia Moraweck

Rachel and me walking with our parents at our wedding in September 2005. © Dana Siles Photographer

Rabbi Jan Uhrbach marrying us under the chuppah at Rachel’s parents’ house in Rhode Island. © Dana Siles Photographer

Arguing the New York marriage case in Albany in 2005. AP Photo / Tim Roske

Practicing my answers with Pam and James at the Stanford moot. Photograph by Joshua Kaye

Our Passover Seder in Washington, DC, two nights before my Supreme Court argument in Windsor. Photograph by Joshua Kaye

Julie Fink, Walter Rieman, Pam Karlan, Andrew Ehrlich, Josh Kaye, Colin Kelly, and Mary Bonauto in the early morning outside the Supreme Court before the Windsor oral argument. Photograph by Dianne R. Phillips

Edie, Jaren, and myself walking into the Supreme Court on March 27, 2013. Photograph by Kathryn Barrett

Edie hugs Jacob and his cousin Ari on the courthouse steps after the Windsor oral argument, with Pam Karlan looking on. Photograph by Adam Lavine

Edie and me reading Justice Kennedy’s opinion on a laptop in my apartment shortly after it came down. Photograph by David S. Allee

James Esseks of the ACLU being lifted in a chair at our victory celebration dance party on June 29, 2013. Photograph by Lindner Studio

My Mississippi clients talking to Edie after my Fifth Circuit argument on January 9, 2015. Photograph by Alexia Koritz

Edie and Jacob mug for the camera. Photograph by Rachel Lavine

Rachel, Jacob, and me in Central Park. Photograph by Jo Moser