This book has covered a lot, from information about your bodies and how they tick to safer sex practices, tips for communication, the lowdown on lube and sex toys, and of course, the endless list of different positions you might want to try once you get down and dirty together. I hope you learned something and can take that to your next sexual encounter, whether that’s tonight, next week, next month, or next year.
If you’d like your partner to read through it as well, that’s of course highly encouraged. Consider challenging her to guess your favorite new position you want to try, or perhaps sticky-note a page that you want to make sure she reads and just leave it on her nightstand.
There are three rules I have for making sure you’re having good sex: communication is key, lube is love, and you’ve gotta laugh. So make sure you’re getting across what you want to your partner (and are open to hearing the same from her); that you’re well stocked with lube to keep things slippery, fun, and of course, pleasurable; and that you’re able to laugh when the time is right. It’s okay to laugh—it’ll boost your endorphins and then when you get back to the sex you were having, your body will be even more primed for pleasure.
Whether you’re lesbian, straight, heterosexual, heteroflexible, bisexual, queer, pansexual, homosexual, homoflexible, questioning, or more, you have the right to have the sex you want to be having and the knowledge about your own body and that of your partner. There is no one magical way to have lesbian sex, or for two women to have sex at all. The sex you’re having, enjoying, and wanting more of is exactly the type of sex that’s right for you right now. So continue to have it, tweak it as needed, learn more about yourself and your partner, and bring your confident, sexy, sex-positive attitude into the world.
Vulva love and vibrator wishes,
Shanna