At the end of life, if you are suffering intolerably even though all comfort measures have been applied, you and your family may feel that dying is preferable to living. If this is the case, you have reached the second turning point: the wish to hasten death. Making this decision can be very difficult, but there are ways to address it systematically.
Quite a few years ago, David developed cancer of the back of the tongue. He was a man in his early sixties who had long been a patient of mine. Although the growth had been treated, it had now returned, and the situation was serious. He was an outgoing person who always seemed to enjoy life, but as he sat in my office with his wife, Abigail, we all were dispirited.
The new and latest recurrence was interfering with his swallowing, and obstruction of his breathing passages was not far off. Further surgery had been considered but was not thought possible. He had had the maximum amount of radiation the area could tolerate, and at that time, chemotherapy for this particular growth was not an effective option. Because we had no definitive treatment that would cure or slow the cancer, comfort measures were all we had to offer, and his death would not be free of suffering.
I had not spoken to David and his wife about my fears, but inwardly I was extremely apprehensive about what he faced. It seemed to me that a very bad death—losing his ability to swallow, choking on his secretions, and having his airway compromised—lay ahead. Principally, I feared that his ability to breathe was going to be severely limited by the increasing size of the cancer mass, which would slowly cut off the air passage to his trachea and would interfere with his ability to handle normal respiratory secretions. This would cause him severe anxiety and agitation. It was not a matter of pain—we could treat pain with the management techniques that were then available. The problem was the distress David would experience as the growing cancer obstructed his airway passages and throat.
David was going to be one of those very occasional patients in a physician’s lifetime practice who, in spite of the best possible care, still suffers unrelieved and intolerable distress, such that the patient prefers death over continued living. The unrelenting misery cannot be sufficiently dealt with by even the best of comfort measures. This situation goes beyond physical pain, which may or may not be present. I was convinced that this was going to be the case with David. He had not at that point said anything about hastening his death, but he was clearly apprehensive about the future.
We sat there for some moments without saying anything. David broke the troubled silence by broaching the subject so far unaddressed. He said, “This whole thing is so discouraging. I want to end my life soon and not go through all that’s ahead. I’ve been afraid to bring it up.”
He had researched his options and told his wife and me that he could end his own life by taking a large dose of Sec-onal (a barbiturate that then was used primarily as a sleeping medication for insomnia). There was another silence, as he looked first at me and then his wife. I knew what he was talking about and knew privately that, if I were in his shoes, I would be thinking the same way. He then informed us that he had accumulated a sufficient dose of the medication. If he took all the capsules he had, within minutes he would be asleep, and within a very few hours his breathing would stop.
David’s statement jarred Abigail. She wanted to support him in any way, but she had never addressed, in her own mind, the thought of his ending his life. I felt unable to advise him on this subject (this was early in my career, and I was still trying to formulate my own position on such a matter), but I told him I would try to relieve his distress as the next few weeks went by, principally by using large doses of morphine to dull his symptoms and awareness. I said that if very large doses of morphine were needed, this might, as a consequence of treating his severe symptoms, shorten his life by some hours or days but that I would use whatever was required to keep him comfortable. I told him that if he decided he wanted to use the Seconal on his own to end his suffering sooner, it had to be his decision and his action.
David’s consultants and other caregivers to that point had done everything right. Throughout the previous several years, he had been seen by multiple specialists at one of the very best cancer facilities in Boston. He was twice brought back to reasonable health by aggressive intervention, but now, when cure seemed no longer possible, he had recognized and dealt with the questions of the first turning point and elected comfort care only. He, Abigail, his cancer specialists, and I redefined the goal of his treatment: We would shepherd him through his dying process with as much peacefulness as possible. All of his caregivers continued to provide meticulous and frequent attention, and as his family physician, I certainly did not pull back from the situation just because we were stopping efforts to cure. David’s psychological needs increased, and they were met in the best way possible by everyone around him. His moderate pain was controlled with strong medication in big enough and frequent enough doses. David had no unwanted tube feedings or intravenous fluids (we had a clear understanding that we were not to use these), and all medications were stopped, except those needed for comfort.
We had addressed all of the big and little problems of comfort care in the best way possible, yet this seriously bad future still loomed ahead.
I was thankful that David had the knowledge and wherewithal to develop the Seconal option on his own, to be used if things went as poorly as I expected. Still educating myself about end-of-life options at that time, I was not sure what I would do had he not raised the issue himself.
Over the next couple of weeks, David, Abigail, and I met several more times, and each time David reiterated his wish to hasten his death. David was absolutely clear in his mind that a planned death was what he wanted, and his tenacity in this belief reassured Abigail to the point that she supported him in this wish. Abigail had only one proviso: “I do not want to know, David, when you are going to take medication to do this. I love you, and want for you what you want, but you have to do this.” David understood, and gently and courageously told her that he did. I listened to all of this, but did not counsel them about the decision. They came to it on their own.
A few days after that, Abigail telephoned me at 6 am to say she thought David had died. I immediately went to their house and found him looking perfectly peaceful—fully dressed, lying on his side with his hands folded together under one cheek—as if he had simply gone to sleep. He had died quietly by his own hand. I was relieved and so was Abigail. David’s trials were over at a time and in a manner of his own choosing. The only thing I regret about his death now, years later, is that he died alone. Even though Abigail had not wanted to know or be present, many doctors now would encourage her to allow a trusted person to be with her husband when he ended his life.
David was like many at the end of life. After the first turning point had been reached and agreed upon, he had been too afraid to ask his doctor about all the possible options for shortening the period of suffering. Today, your physician may be more aware than I was those years ago. These questions need to be raised in a proactive way.1 However, some physicians still will not raise the subject with those patients who have not been able to broach the issue on their own. Even if the patient is the one to raise the question of hastening death by an overdose of barbiturate, the use of helium (discussed more fully in Chapter 9), or other overt and clear-cut means, the doctor may still evade the question or state frankly that he cannot help. However, with the passage of time, further education, and a more permissive legal environment, this is changing so that the option of hastened death is more often easily discussed in these dire situations.
Properly given comfort care ensures that the overwhelming majority of patients do not wish to hasten death. This is vital to emphasize. Patients are not likely to consider the options for a planned, earlier death until optimal comfort care has been given but is no longer effective. Although vigorously applied pain and comfort measures should suffice to provide a peaceful death in the vast majority of instances, patients and families need to be prepared to deal with the infrequent situation when intolerable distress persists in spite of all usual measures, as was about to happen in David’s case. In these instances, the situation declares itself and is undeniable. Hastening death means ultimate control for some people facing the end of life: the right to determine when and under what circumstances they can end intolerable suffering after all other options have been exhausted.
Hastening death is part of a spectrum of end-of-life care. It is not suicide in the usual sense, in that the principal cause of death is the basic disease process that has brought a patient to the brink of death. Planning a death on one’s own terms does not take away from the causality of the underlying disease.
In the following two chapters we shall go over each of the options that have been used for hastening death, but before doing so, we should consider the questions that patients and families have asked in order to decide whether this could be the best course and a proper action.
In the past, others and I have outlined suggested safeguards for any action that might hasten death.2 A series of questions have been asked by patients to be sure rational decisions were made. If the answers to the following questions were all “yes,” then patients and families facing this dilemma probably have been reasonably comfortable and at peace with a planned death. These essential and mandatory questions have been raised appropriately not only by those who wished to discontinue unwanted treatment (in favor of comfort care only) but also by those who sought more aggressive measures for hastening death.
(Note that in the Oregon law permitting physicians in that state to give assistance in dying, many of these questions are codified in the law as formal requirements. The law is discussed in detail in Appendix B. This groundbreaking referendum makes it legal for physicians to aid patients who wish to hasten death under certain circumstances, and numerous safeguards are built in to prevent any abuse. The law applies only in Oregon, although several other states are looking at enacting similar legislation.)
Here are the issues patients in the past have properly addressed with their caregivers when they wished for a hastened death. The first eight relate to whether all other options that would relieve suffering have been considered carefully and judged not to be helpful or possible.
Those who have had some indecision on this last point have benefited from remarks made by Bishop John Shelby Spong, Episcopal Bishop in the diocese of Newark, in a keynote address to the Hemlock USA (predecessor to End-of-Life Choices, now Compassion and Choices) meeting in San Diego on January 10, 2003. He said, in part:
“I believe that if and when a person arrives at that point in human existence when death has become a kinder alternative than hopeless pain and when a chronic dependency on narcotics begins to require the loss of personal dignity, then the basic human right to choose how and when to die should be guaranteed by law and respected by our communities of faith. . . .
“In the course of our history, we Christians have never left the power to die exclusively in God’s hands. Rather we have fought religious wars in which people were killed quite deliberately . . . The records of history show that Christian rulers in ostensibly Christian nations, aided and abetted by the prevailing religious hierarchies of the Christian churches, have shown no reluctance whatsoever in claiming the right to take the power of life and death from God’s hands and to place that power squarely into their own very human hands. . . .
“When medical science shifts from expanding the length and quality of life and begins simply to postpone the reality of death, why are we not capable of saying that the sacredness of life is no longer being served, and therefore Christians must learn to act responsibly in the final moments of life? . . . Do we human beings, including those of us who claim to be Christians, not have the right to say ‘that is not the way I choose to die’? I believe we do! . . .
“I think this choice should be legal. I will work, therefore, through the political processes to seek to create a world where advance directives are obeyed and where physicians will assist those who choose to do so, with the ability to die at the appropriate time. I also think the choice to do this should be acclaimed as both moral and ethical, a human right if you will. . . .”
You may take comfort from these arguments of Bishop Spong if hastening death is being considered. There is no reason for religion to stand in the way of the autonomy that is deserved. Being religious and believing in autonomy at the end of life are not inconsistent positions.
In the past, when these questions discussed in the last few pages have all been addressed individually and each has been resolved with a “yes” answer or at least has been properly considered, patients who faced intolerable and unrelieved suffering were able more easily to make a decision as to whether they should undertake a course of action aimed at hastening death.
The death with dignity movement has regularly come under attack from some who use questionable logic in their opposition to physician aid-in-dying. The following points can be considered in countering their criticisms.