CONTENTS

FOREWORD

Armistead Maupin

INTRODUCTION

Melissa de la Cruz and Tom Dolby

I. Gays and Gals

SHOP GIRLS

Karen Robinovitz

FAG HAGS: THE LAUGHTER, THE TEARS, THE MARABOU

Simon Doonan

THE COLLECTORS

K. M. Soehnlein

MY FAIRY GODFATHERS

Cecil Castellucci

THAT UNSETTLING FEELING

Mike Albo

II. Close Confidants

A HARVARD (FAG) HAG-IOGRAPHY

Alexandra Jacobs

MY BEST GIRLFRIEND

James Lecesne

MY DINNERS WITH TOM

Gigi Levangie Grazer

MAN’S BEST FRIEND

David Ebershoff

MARRIAGE MATERIAL

Wendy Mass

III. A Fine Romance

EVERYTHING I ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT SEX (AND LIFE) I LEARNED FROM GAY MEN

Stacey Ballis

LOVE IN OTHER LIFETIMES

Anna David

FUTURE PERFECT

Tom Dolby

A MANHATTAN LOVE STORY

Melissa de la Cruz

SUPER COUPLE

Sarah Kate Levy

GET THIS

Cindy Chupack

IV. Growing Up, Coming Out

THE GOOD GIRLS

David Levithan

WELCOME TO MY DOLLHOUSE

Michael Musto

DONNY AND MARIE DON’T GET MARRIED

Brian Sloan

LIFE BEFORE GAYS

Elizabeth Spiers

THE LONG TRIP HOME

Zakiyyah Alexander

LAY IT ALL DOWN

Edwin John Wintle

SHUTTERSPEED

Bennett Madison

V. Fathers and Daughters, Mothers and Sons

IN PRAISE OF WOMEN

Andrew Solomon

FAMILY ALBUMS

Philip Himberg

LIKE FATHER, LIKE DAUGHTER

Abigail Garner

SITTING IN THE DARK WITH MY MOTHER

Zach Udko

DARLING, I LIKE YOU THAT WAY

Ayelet Waldman

Acknowledgments

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