BIBLIOGRAPHY AND SOURCES
Interviews
Helen Fisher, PhD
Jeffrey Morrison, MD
Stanford Lotwin, Esq.
Sunny Shulkin, LSCW, BCD
Mark Shulkin, MD
Books
Bach, David. The Automatic Millionaire: A Powerful One-Step Plan to Live and Finish Rich. New York: Broadway Books. 2004.
Bach, David. The Automatic Millionaire Workbook: A Personalized Plan to Live and Finish Rich . . . Automatically. New York: Broadway Books. 2005.
Bach, David. Smart Couples Finish Rich: 9 Steps to Creating a Rich Future for You and Your Partner. New York: Broadway Books. 2002.
Bach, David. Smart Women Finish Rich: 9 Steps to Achieving Financial Security and Funding Your Dreams. New York: Broadway Books. 2002.
Bach, David. Start Late, Finish Rich: A No-Fail Plan for Achieving Financial Freedom at Any Age. New York: Broadway Books. 2005.
Bach, David. The Finish Rich Workbook: Creating a Personalized Plan for a Richer Future. New York: Broadway Books. 2003.
Bass, Howard L., Rein, M. L. Divorce or Marriage: A Legal Guide. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentiss Hall. 1976.
Byrne, Rhonda. The Secret. New York: Atria Books. 2006.
Collins Stephens, Deborah; Speier, Jackie; Cristini Risley, Michealene; Yanehiro, Jan. This is Not the Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down. San Francisco: Conari Press. 2007.
Dubin, Arlene G. Prenups for Lovers: A Romantic Guide to Prenuptial Agreements. New York: Villard. 2001.
Eaker Weil, Bonnie, PhD. Can We Cure and Forgive Adultery?: Staying Not Straying. Understanding Our Biochemical Craving for Connection. West Conshohocken, PA: Infinity Publishing, 2004.
Eaker Weil, Bonnie, PhD. Adultery: The Forgivable Sin. Poughkeepsie, NY: Hudson House. 2003.
Eaker Weil, Bonnie, PhD. Make Up, Don’t Break Up: Finding and Keeping Love for Singles and Couples. Avon, MA:Adams Media. 2000.
Eaker Weil, Bonnie, PhD. How Not to (S)Mother Your Man and How to Keep a Woman Happy?: A Simple Guide to Falling and Staying In Love For Both Men and Women. West Conshohocken, PA: Infinity Publishing. 2004.
Ehrenreich, Barbara. Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America. New York: Henry Holt. 2002.
Eker, T. Harv. Secrets of the Millionaire Mind. New York: HarperCollins. 2005.
Gottman, John, PhD. Why Marriages Succeed or Fail . . . and How You Can Make Yours Last. New York: Simon & Schuster. 1995.
Henri-x, Harville, PhD. Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. New York: Harper Perennial. 1988.
Huffington, Arianna. On Becoming Fearless . . . In Love,Work, and Life. New York: Little Brown and Company. 2006.
Mellan, Olivia. Money Harmony: Resolving Money Conflicts in Your Life and Relationships. New York: Walker & Company. 1994.
Orman, Suze. Women & Money: Owning the Power to Control Your Destiny. New York: Spiegel & Grau. 2007.
Orman, Suze. The Road to Wealth: A Comprehensive Guide to Your Money. New York: Riverhead Books. 2003.
Orman, Suze. The Money Book for the Young, Fabulous & Broke. New York: Riverhead Books. 2005.
Orman, Suze. The Laws of Money: 5 Timeless Secrets to Get Out and Stay Out of Financial Trouble. New York: Free Press. 2004.
Orman, Suze. The Courage to Be Rich: Creating a Life of Material and Spiritual Abundance. New York: Riverhead Books. 2002.
Pond, Jonathan D. You Can Do It! The Boomer’s Guide to a Great Retirement. New York: Collins Books. 2007.
Siegel, Daniel J., MD. The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are. New York, London: Guilford Press. 2001.
Siegel, Daniel J., MD. The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-Being. New York, London: W.W. Norton & Co. 2007.
Sutton, Garrett, Esq. The ABC’s of Getting Out of Debt: Turn Bad Debt into Good Debt and Bad Credit into Good Credit. New York, Boston: Warner Business Books. 2004.
Vaknin, Sam, PhD. Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited. Prague and Skopje: Narcissus Publications. 2006.
Articles
Allison, Julia. “Dating the Single File.” Time Out New York. August 30- September 5, 2007.
Allure. October 2007.
Boyd, Andrew. “Dating Now.” Marie Claire. October 2007.
Brown, Harriet. “The Other Brain Also Deals With Many Woes.” The New York Times. August 23, 2005.
Caldwell, Christine. “Caring for the Caregiver.” Psychotherapy Networker. September / October 2007.
Carey, Benedict. “Do You Believe in Magic?” The New York Times. January 23, 2007.
Chatzky, Jean. “Shopping for Happiness? Here’s What to Buy.” Money Magazine.April 2007.
Chu, Kathy. “Breaking Up Is Hard to Do Financially.” USA Today. September 28, 2007.
Dowd, Maureen. “What’s a Modern Girl to Do?” The New York Times Magazine.October 30, 2005.
Estroff Marano, Hara. “Love Lessons.” Psychology Today. Mar/Apr, 1997.
Farrell, Greg. “The Enron Whistleblower Who Wasn’t.” USA Today. October 12, 2007.
Fiske, A. John. “Couples’ Finances, Upfront and Personal.” The Boston Globe. December 29, 2005.
Gengler, Amanda. “The Urge to Lose Money.” Money Magazine. March 1, 2007.
Kluger, Jeffrey. “What Makes Us Moral.” Time. December 3, 2007.
Lemonick, Michael D. with Park, Alice. “The Science of Addiction.” Time. July 16, 2007.
Loftus, Mary. “Till Debt Do Us Part.” Psychology Today. Nov / Dec 2004.
Matthews, Kathryn. “Romance Rehab.” O Magazine. May 2007.
Max, Sarah. “Financial Infidelity.” Tango. Fall 2007.
Murphy Paul, Annie. “Mind Reading.” Psychology Today. September / October 2007.
Newsweek. “Women and Power” Issue. October 17, 2007.
Norris, Floyd. “High and Low Finance: Rethinking Risk’s Role in Bosses’ Pay.” The New York Times. October 12, 2007.
Ordonez, Jennifer. “Tying the Financial Knot.” Newsweek. April 9, 2007.
Parker-Pope, Tara. “Marital Spats, Taken to Heart.” The New York Times. October 2, 2007.
Richard, Joanne. “For Love and Money.” The Toronto Sun. July 2003.
Rosenbloom, Stephanie. “Boss’s Memo: Go Ahead, Date (With My Blessing).” The New York Times. October 11, 2007.
Sainai, Kristin. “More Powerful Willpower.” Allure. November 2007.
Shivani, Vora. “When Money Doesn’t Talk.” The New York Times. January 14,2007.
Singletary, Michelle. “Financial Infidelity: Fought About and Lied About, Even When Not Talked About, Money Makes Couples Mad.” The Washington Post. February 11, 2007.
Tierney, John. “The Whys of Mating: 237 Reasons and Counting.” The New York Times. July 31, 2007.
Tugend, Alina. “Envy, Anxiety, Secrecy, Taboos: The Subject Must Be Money.” The New York Times. February 3, 2007.
Tyre, Peg. “To Catch a Cheat.” Newsweek. October 15, 2007.
USA Today. Money. December 24, 2007.
Ventura, Michael. “Confessions of an External Romantic.” Psychology Today.March-April 1977.
Voss, Gretchen. “The Starter Husband.” Marie Claire. September 2007.
Williams,Alex. “Putting Money on the Table: With Rising Incomes, Young Women Discuss the Pitfalls of ‘Dating Down.’ ” The New York Times. September 23, 2007.
Studies
Lott, Deborah A. “Brain Development, Attachment and Impact on Psychic Vulnerability.” Psychiatric Times. Vol. 15, Issue 5. May 1998.
Singh, Supriya. “Money, Marriage and the Computer.” Marriage & Family Review, Vol 24, No. 3-4,1996.
Spinella, Marcello, Yang, Bijou, and Lester, David. “Prefrontal Systems in Financial Processing.” Journal of Socio-Economics. Vol. 36, Issue 3. June 2007.
Sullivan, Teresa A., Warren, Elizabeth, Westbrook, Jay Lawrence. “Bankruptcy and the Family.” Marriage & Family Review, Vol. 21, No. 3-4, 1995.
Van Boven, Leaf. “Experientialism, Materialism, and the Pursuit of Happiness.” Review of General Psychology, Vol. 9, No. 2, 2005.
Television and Radio
Oprah, November 2007.
The Today Show, October 15, 2007.
20/20 “Doing Good and Feeling Better: Why Giving Back Could Make You Happier . . . and Healthier.” August 20, 2007.
Voice of America Broadcast, August 6, 2007 with Olivia Mellan and Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil.
Web Sites
“Personal Finance for Unmarried Couples.”
Zaslow, Jeffrey. “Financial Infidelity: When It’s OK to Shop Behind Your Spouse’s Back” from the Wall Street Journal online. March 31, 2006.
Regnier, Pat and Gengler, Amanda. “Men, women . . . and money.” March 14, 2006.
Sahadi, Jeanne. “Will Your Money Fights Lead to Divorce?” March 15, 2006.
The Gottman Institute.
Shindler, Lisa. “Postnups Becoming ‘New’ Prenups.” June 18, 2007.
“New Survey Finds Common Financial Infidelity.” October 11, 2005.
“Can a Lack of Sleep Cause Psychiatric Disorders?” October 23, 2007.
“SRI Medication Effective in Treating Compulsive Hoarding Patients.” October 25, 2006.
“Financial Infidelity? Is Honesty the Policy?” January 31,2006.
McGregor, Jena. “Love & Money.” February 9, 2004. Todorova, Alesksandra. “The Six Financial Mistakes Couples Make.”
Vedantam, Shankar. “Salary, Gender and the Social Cost of Haggling.” July 30, 2007.