2:1 The rose of Sharon and lily of the valley were flowers commonly found in Israel. Perhaps the girl was saying, “I’m not so special; I’m just an ordinary flower,” to which Solomon replied, “Oh no, you are extraordinary—a lily among thorns.” Solomon used the language of love. Nothing is more vital than encouraging and appreciating the person you love. Be sure to tell your spouse, “I love you” every day, and show that love by your actions.
2:7 Feelings of love can create emotions that overpower reason. Young people are too often in a hurry to develop an intimate relationship based on their strong feelings. But feelings aren’t enough to support a lasting relationship. This verse encourages us not to force romance lest the feelings of love grow faster than the commitment needed to make love last. Patiently wait for feelings of love and commitment to develop together.
2:8–3:5 In this section Solomon’s bride (the girl) reflects on her courtship with Solomon, remembering the first day they met and recalling one of her dreams about their being together.
2:12, 13 The lovers celebrated their joy in the creation and in their love. God created the world, the beauty of nature, and the gift of love and sex, and he gave us senses to enjoy them. Never let problems, conflicts, or the ravages of time ruin your ability to enjoy God’s gifts. Take time to enjoy the world God has created.
2:15 Some believe this verse was spoken by the girl’s brothers (see the note on 1:6). Just when the girl and Solomon were enjoying each other’s company, the brothers told her that foxes had gotten into the vineyard and she must leave and tend to the problem.
The “little foxes” are an example of the kinds of problems that can disturb or destroy a relationship. The lovers wanted anything that could potentially cause problems between them to be removed. Often the “little foxes” cause the biggest problems in marriage. These irritations must not be minimized or ignored but identified so that, together, the couple can deal with them.