The squirrels have been raiding the old hickory nut tree in the neat, green front yard, leaving a carpet of dark hulls on the lawn. It is a way to tell the character of a person. Show them a squirrel with a jaw full of hickory nuts, and if they don’t smile, there is something bad wrong with them. I thought it was a good sign, that tree. It is hard to be lonely with a yard full of gray squirrels. The old, ugly dog, Gizzard, can chase them if he’s able.
I believe my momma will be happy here.
The four-bedroom house, made of beige brick with dark green shutters, sits on top of a hill—she had always wanted to live on a hill—but it is not so steep that she will have a hard time walking down to the mail box every afternoon. It has a porch on the front, and in the summertime she can sit there in the cool of the evening and snap beans, or peel taters, or just wave at the cars. In the back, behind the backyard, are more hills, and in the fall the hardwoods and pines form a backdrop of red and gold and green. In the summer, the honeysuckle runs from tree to tree, smelling so good. “I would spend all my time here,” she told me when we first walked the little piece of land behind the house.
I kept my promise to my mother on November 2, 1996. I took every dollar I had and bought her a house, a good house, the first thing of any real value she has ever owned. She never had a wedding ring, or a decent car, or even a set of furniture that matched. Or teeth that fit. But she had a home now, a home of her own. I was happy and sad at the same time as I handed the realtor the money, happy that it had finally come true, sad that it had taken so long to accomplish.
Like I said earlier, I could have bought her one on credit, a long time ago, and I guess I should have. But if I had bought her a house on the installment plan, and something had happened to me, if I had lost my job and the dream had died and my world had turned to shit the way I have always feared it might, she would have lost it. The only thing worse than doing without is to be given something and then have it snatched away, and I could not take that chance. It is a sad thing, maybe, to go through life with an outlook like that, but that’s the way it is. Maybe someday that will change. I hope it does.
But this way, no one can take it away from her no matter what happens to me. The thing is done: 1.3 acres, with room for squirrels and ugly dogs and family. If it had been up to me, I would have bought her a white Victorian house in town, one of those homes where she used to scrub floors, where the people wore the clothes she ironed. I would have done it for the pure poetic justice of it, to strike back at the past. But she wanted nothing to do with those houses, nothing to do with town. She wanted to walk in the pines and smell the wood smoke and plant rose of Sharon on the chert-rock banks. She wanted her dog, the remarkably unattractive Gizzard, to live out his last, limping days in the country, not in some pen, the neighbors complaining every time he felt like baying at the moon. She wanted to live as she had always lived, in the pines, with room for a small garden and space to pace away your troubles, only on her own ground.
She was afraid to want it, really, afraid because it cost so much, afraid because she thought it was a hardship on me, afraid because it seemed all wrong, a son buying her a house when he should have been buying one for himself, and beginning a family. “It ought to be the other way,” she told me once. “It ought to be me, doing for you, not you doing for me.”
I don’t think I have ever quite made it clear to her that I would never, ever be able to start building that part of my life as long as this part, this promise, was unfinished. It would be like building on sand.
She picked the house out herself, after months of riding the back-roads in Calhoun County, because she thought it was pretty, because it was close to my brother Sam’s house and my other kinfolks, because the hill always seemed to have a good breeze on it, other reasons, some silly, some not. We must have looked at a hundred houses before this one caught her eye and her heart. We went to look at it on a hot day in the early fall, scuffed along the wall-to-wall carpet, opened the oven in the nice, roomy kitchen where she will can her jellies and peppers and green tomatoes. We flushed the toilets in all three bathrooms, walked down into the full basement and the downstairs “family room,” twisted the dial on the thermostat to hear the heat pump click on like a Trojan. I saw her reach up to feel the cool air rush in, like magic, and saw her smile.
“I won’t run it, ’cept on the real hot days,” she told me, and I told her she should run it any damn time she wanted. In the basement–family room, there is a fancy new wood heater with a rock fireplace, which she said she will use sometimes. I made it plain to her that the reason for buying it was so she could grow old in some comfort, that she doesn’t have to tote in wood anymore—or trip over the extension cords to the dangerous electric space heaters—to stay warm. She pretended not to hear me—I know she heard me but there is no arguing with my momma’s back—and went on talking about how the wood heater would heat that whole house, if she blocked off the space she didn’t need.
She gave the living room, dining room, den and upstairs bedrooms just a passing glance, but kept wandering back to the kitchen, with so many cabinets, so much space, such nice, clean space. I knew she was deciding where the flour tins would go. I knew she was placing, in her mind’s eye, green tomatoes on the windowsills, so they could ripen. I knew she was searching for a place to plug in her coffee pot—she had never had anything to drink in her whole life except coffee and water and buttermilk—and I knew the house would not be complete until that warm, rich smell of strong coffee filled the rooms.
“It’s a lot of house for one woman,” the realtor said, but I told him no, it was just right.
Then he told me what he was asking for it, and saw my momma’s eyes drop and her dream snap closed, because to a woman who had lived with next to nothing, that very reasonable price seemed impossible. She walked outside then and stood in the yard, and wouldn’t talk about it much, after that. Now and then she would slip in conversation with my brothers and other kinfolks, and call it “my house.” She drew pictures of it. But she never asked for it again.
It took a few months to close, until that November day when I showed up at her door unannounced, and told her she owned a house now, her house. She smiled, as wide as I have ever seen her smile, and the tears pooled in her eyes. She asked me if we could afford the mortgage payments, and I told her there were none, that she could run around and around in it banging on pots and pans with a hairbrush, and no one could do a thing about it. It was hers.
I will never, ever forget that day. She and my aunts were having a yard sale, selling canned pickles and quilts and homemade doodads, and though the wind blew strong and just a little cold the sky was electric blue, cloudless. It was a fine day, in every way.
We went for a drive to look at it. The previous residents had not moved out yet, so all we could do was sit in the car at the side of the road and look at it, which was all she wanted to do anyway. The hill behind it was on fire with color from the changing season—fall comes late down here—and we sat, not saying anything, until the light started to fail and we began to worry that the people in the house would call the law on us, for lurking down there at the foot of our own hill. Somehow it didn’t matter that we could only sit at the side of the road and look up at it.
“It’s a dream, ain’t it. It’s just a dream,” she said, and I told her no. It was just us getting even with life, one more time.
My brother Sam went to work on it as soon as it was hers, fixing all the little things it needed, making a pretty house much prettier. “I ain’t got money,” he said, “but I got labor.” He sawed down unwanted, spindly trees, painted every inch of the thing that wasn’t covered in brick, and crawled over it and under it, with a hammer in his hand and nails in his teeth, to make it perfect. He worked on it every day after his shift at the cotton mill, dragging brush out of the wooded area behind the house by flashlight. At night, from my apartment in Atlanta or whatever hotel room I was in that night, we schemed by telephone on what to do next, what colors to use, talking about any and everything we could do to it, until we finally just ran out of projects. I know he was as proud of it as she was, as I was, that he had watched her, helpless as I was, just existing in that borrowed home. One night we sat in his living room trying to decide between tan and off-white paint for the trim, and it struck us, how odd that was. “Did you ever think we’d be doing this?” I asked him, and he shook his head. There was no celebrating. You celebrate winning, not just catching up.
We tried hard to make it perfect. The house sits on Nisbet Lake Road, but that is kind of misleading because Nisbet Lake dried up a long time ago (and calling it Nisbet Hole in the Ground Road was not attractive). If we could have done it without going to prison, Sam and me would have broken the dam and filled that lake up again, so she could have ridden past water on her way to town. It would have been closer to perfect, as a family, if Mark had been with us, beside us, as we did these things for her and for us, as we built this nice, new life for her, safely away from the ruins of the old one. But he was off somewhere, grappling with his own ghosts.
“You can’t fix everything,” one of my old girlfriends told me, when I complained about those missing pieces of this life I was trying to reshape, re-create. “You think you can. But some things you can’t buy and some things you can’t just wish true.”
“Did you know it had a doorbell?” my momma asked me, right after we bought it. “I never had a doorbell.” I asked her if the sound of it bothered her, and she shook her head. “I kind of like it.”
Some weeks later I was talking to Sam on the telephone, asking if she had settled in. She has, he told me, but he was a little worried about one thing. “She rings her own doorbell,” he said.
I told him to let her ring it till she wore it out.
I guess it was hard for her, even as much as she loved that new house, to leave the tiny house on Roy Webb Road, the one we had shared for so long with our grandma, the one that had been a refuge for us, from our daddy.
She lived there forty years, almost all her adult life, most of that time without hot water in the kitchen, with pipes that froze every winter, without room for even a decent-sized Christmas tree in the tiny front room, at least one bigger than a shrub.
Some of our kinfolks did not like the idea of me moving her out. I can’t understand that.
“Margaret won’t never be happy nowhere but in that little house,” one of our kinfolks warned us, but it had never been hers, that little house. The fire a few years earlier that had started in my bedroom had turned most of my momma’s keepsakes and memories to ashes. Almost all her pictures, my daddy’s letters, our baby books—back then the hospital doctors gave you a book to fill in with the baby’s first words, first song, other things—were gone. There were just the walls, and the memories they contained.
Life inside those walls had been bittersweet, certainly not always happy, but somehow better than the life we had so often run from, to escape. This was the house where we healed.
I do not know if my aunt Nita and uncle Ed, who own it, will ever rent it out, or if they will keep it as a shrine to my grandma. People, my people, do things like that.
My momma did not walk it one last time, trying to remember. You never know what you will prick yourself on when you feel back into the past. She packed her last bag and made sure the stove was off by patting the eyes, turned off the lights and left.
She did not cry, she did not show any emotion at all, as we drove her to her own house on the hill, at least not until we pulled into the driveway. “I’m gonna put a Christmas tree in every window,” she announced. “In the living room, a big one, one you can walk around.”
I did go back to the little house, to look and remember. I have seen movies where people walked through their empty houses, their footsteps echoing with memories. It wasn’t that way. I couldn’t take more than a few steps in any direction before having to turn around again. But in every cramped step there was a flash, like an old projector running backward. There was my momma in her bed, sick, after the death of my brother, and my brother Mark, a toddler with fat cheeks, sitting on the floor, laughing, showing his new teeth. There was my uncle John in the living room, before his hair turned white, fishing in his pocket for a silver dollar, and my uncle Ed at the door, his face unlined, telling us it was time to go to work, boys.
There was my grandma with a rag around her head, high on her medicine, shaking me awake at 3 A.M. instead of 7 A.M., shouting that it was time to go to school, and my poor momma taking her by the elbow and leading her back to bed. There was Sam, about ten years old and wearing a cowboy hat, staggering in from doing work no boy should have been asked to do, his boots tracking in mud, my momma cleaning it up without saying a word. There was me, about twelve, reading a book by the light of a naked 40-watt bulb dangling from a drop cord looped over a bent nail in the ceiling, the orange cord disappearing past the quilt nailed over the doorway to the living room, for privacy. There was my young-looking aunt Jo, balancing a plate of turkey and cornbread dressing on her knee, and my aunt Nita, her hair still a rich, dark brown, asking my momma if she needed anything from town.
Even though it was winter and dead quiet, I could hear the drone and rattle of the electric fan that made it bearable to sleep in the August heat, even though the fan sucked in the bugs that, sooner or later, found their way into at least one ear. I could hear the radio in my grandma’s room, hear Bill Monroe in his high lonesome tenor singing about a boy going off to sea, his true love begging him to stay at home with her. I could hear Hank, and Merle, and Johnny Cash and June Carter Cash singing about Jackson, her calling him “you long-legged, guitar-picking man.” I could hear The Word on that dusty TV.
They say you can’t remember a smell, but I could smell the wood smoke and the Rose Hair Oil and the chicken shit that invariably crept into the house on the bottoms of feet, and the musty quilts our momma pulled up to our nose, and, stronger than anything, the smell of fatback, fried crisp, that smell that lasted all day and rode to school with you on your hands, so that you could put your hands to your face during history class and get hungry all over again.
I don’t know. Maybe I did wrong. Maybe I should have let things alone and left her there. A friend, a good, well-meaning one, told me once that I was buying the house for me, for my own satisfaction, to meet my own sense of duty, and not really for her. But that friend had grown up middle class and comfortable, protected by her daddy’s steady paychecks, never forced to tote wood a hundred yards just to stay warm. If she wanted to be cold, she went camping. That friend had never seen the silverfish scurry by the hundreds across the floor because there were so many cracks and holes in the walls and floors, or felt a rat crawl across their legs at night. I doubt if her momma had ever stuffed cotton in her ears, to keep the bugs out. I doubt if she had ever flushed the toilet with buckets, not for a day, but for a winter. I doubt it.
Yet it planted some doubt in my mind. Was this house just my own selfish act? Had I taken her out of the only place on earth she could feel at home, even with all its hardships? I asked her, sometime later, if I had tried to fix something that wasn’t broke.
My momma seldom gets mad at me now, at least that I can see, but she was mad at me then. “I wish everybody would quit telling me how I feel,” she said. “They don’t know nothin’.” Then she stomped off—as much as a sixty-year-old woman can stomp—over her wall-to-wall carpeting, to her big, clean kitchen, in the house where every time you have company, it goes ding-dong.
It may sit empty a hundred years, that tiny house we grew up in, until the pine trees out front—the ones Sam and my grandma planted when I was just a boy—reach into the clouds. Funny, I cannot imagine anyone in it except us. I guess everyone feels that way, when they leave a house behind. But when I think about it now, for some reason my thoughts carry me not through the yard or even into the house itself, but beneath it. It takes me into that cool darkness where I used to play for hours in the dirt, burying the cat-eye marbles, fake-gold buttons and bits of tinfoil, only to go digging for them again in a week, a month, a year. In a stupid, silly way I search my grown-up memory for the things I reclaimed there, and for the treasures that just disappeared in the soft ground. Like it matters now.