Erotic spanking is a popular activity, particularly among alpha women who welcome the chance to hand over control (temporarily). Done properly, it is delicious foreplay.
From a spanking man: “There aren’t many ways to do this. You can start by spanking through fabric, preferably thin panties, to warm up, or you can go straight to the bare flesh. You can cup the hand or not. The flatter your hand, the more intense the sensations. Slap the buttocks, not the middle. Stay away from the smile; go to the cheeks. It’s about the anticipation of the blow and the sound when it hits, not usually about corporal punishment. Spank slowly in an irregular, not rhythmic, pattern, so she won’t know exactly what is coming next. My secret is to pay attention and continually figure out what my partner likes and give that to her.”
And what about the spanking woman? If she can say, “Daddy, I’ve been a naughty girl”—can’t he say, “Mommy, I’ve been a naughty boy”? Some men enjoy spanking, too. Follow the same directions. A bottom is bottom.
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