Sometimes his need is greater than hers (and other times hers is greater than his). Don’t play the role of a blowup doll. Take charge of his pleasure. Doing it this way should give you a fair share of your own, too.
Have him sit in a sturdy chair, preferably one without arms or a wide padded chair with room for her legs on the sides. Take off your skirt and panties and make sure he has a good view.
Hand him a small vibe to use on your clitoris.
Unzip his pants, take out his penis, and pay a little attention to it as he strokes your clitoris.
Sit down on his penis. You can fold your legs to the sides of him, or, if the chair permits, keep your feet on the floor. Either way, you have leverage, either by rocking up and down on thigh power or by using your feet.
While you control the thrusting, he works the vibe.
Maintain intense eye contact with him. Your hands are free to caress his face or tweak his nipples. How you handle your man sets the tone for this as a tender or tough and hot experience.
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