In the beginning of a relationship, couples kiss a lot. As time goes on, they kiss less and less. But kissing is an intrinsic part of good sex. We taste, touch, and smell our lovers in a deep sensual kiss.
To put the soul back into kissing, each person should:
• Keep your eyes open at least part of the time.
• Lead with the tip of your tongue. “Deep” kissing does not mean ramming your tongue down her (or his) throat.
• Play with your lover’s lips with the tip of your tongue and then circle his tongue with the tip of yours—again and again.
• Thrust the tip of your tongue in and out of her mouth as you caress her face and play with her hair.
• Tease one another with tongue play as you run your hands up and down each other’s bodies.
• Circle the tip of his tongue as if it were the head of his penis.
• Pull back once or twice to gently lock lips and look into one another’s eyes—and pick up the tempo again.
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