DAY 18: BIG O THURSDAY
The Long Tease

Men who have watched a lot of porn often think that sex is hard-driving from start to finish. (Sometimes it is, but not usually.) As soon as she’s aroused, they move out of the foreplay stage and into driver mode. Women love to be teased sexually. You can bring a woman to a strong orgasm or a series of multiples by teasing.

Play with her, both orally and manually. When she is very aroused, pull back. Dial down the stimulation. Bring her up, let her back down—over and over again, until she’s begging for release. Don’t let her come until she does beg.

For example, stop cunnilingus before orgasm. Hold her and stroke her breasts or thighs until her arousal subsides. Back to the cunnilingus. Stop again.

Stroke her, this time moving from nongenital caresses to her labia and finally playing with her clitoris. Stop again.

Repeat oral and manual teasing as desired.

The slow build creates enormous erotic tension, leading to an explosive release.

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