DAY 26: GET-YOUR-FREAK-ON FRIDAY
The Forbidden Lick

This tip comes from Master J, one of the interesting characters I’ve met in Maxie’s Grill, a Gramercy Park bar in Manhattan. Master J was part of the scene in the days of Plato’s Retreat, Hellfire, and other S&M clubs. He knows how to please women, often by giving them something they secretly crave—like analingus.

The anus is rich in nerve endings. Playing there does seem naughty or even taboo—and that ratchets up arousal.

From J: “Men want anal intercourse. Many women don’t want that, but they secretly desire another kind of attention to their asshole. They want to be licked. Lick her asshole; rim it with your tongue and then your finger. ‘Fuck’ it with just the tip of your tongue then the tip of your finger.”

Caveat: If her asshole isn’t “lickable” clean, she’ll be embarrassed—and you likely won’t be so happy either after you swallow some unwelcome bacteria. Shower or bathe together first. Suds up her bottom and gently use a washcloth-covered finger around and slightly into her anus. An added safety measure: a piece of plastic wrap between tongue and anus.

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