The floggers sold in sex toy shops and online have soft suede lashes. But if you use one with enough force, you can leave a mark. That’s a little too freaky for most people. Try out the flogger on your own flesh before you use it on your partner. How does it feel on the sensitive skin of your inner thighs?
• Start with a stroke so light that it feels like blades of grass moving in the wind.
• Don’t keep flogging the same spot. Move it around.
• Pick up the intensity slightly.
• Be guided by your lover’s responses as you use a firmer stroke.
• Land the firmest strokes on the fleshiest parts of the buttocks.
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