You’re both relaxing in bed. This is the perfect time to throw off the sheets and commune with his cock. Slide down your man’s body, take his cock in your hands, and look at it, really look.
• What shape is it? Thin and long? Short and thick? Slightly curved?
Have you thought what the cock might want based on its shape and size? You can take a thin, short one up your ass. You can use a curve to get G-spot stimulation.
• How hard does it usually get?
Some penises, especially exceptionally large ones, do not ever get very hard. Others lose some of their erectile strength with age. Other penises will achieve youthful erections into their forties, fifties, and beyond. If he’s on the softer side, build more hand jobs and blow jobs into your repertoire. Keep your PC muscle in good working order and adapt positions, such as wrapping your legs around his waist in missionary.
• Do you recognize the stages of his arousal pattern?
There’s more to a penis than erection and post-ejaculation. As he approaches orgasm, his heart rate, breathing, and blood pressure reach their peaks and he is as hard as he is going to get. His thrusting reaches a peak.
• Would you like to say anything to his penis while you’re down there?
Dr. Sonia Borg, creator of the Penis Whisperer BJ, says: “Put your mouth around his clothed penis and make the humming sound coming from deep in your throat. This will send vibrations up and down his spine and give him something too yummy to think about for the next few minutes.”
I adore Sonia’s joyous approach to sex, and it makes me want to say “I love you” to my favorite cock.
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