Men feel totally accepted and loved when you swallow, and it’s not that difficult. Control the depth of penetration by using the Ring and the Seal (page 102). Position yourself so that his ejaculate will shoot straight down your throat.
These are the two easiest swallowing positions:
1. Lie on your back with your head off the edge of the bed. Your mouth and throat will form a smooth line in this position. Have him straddle your face for the elegant finish to a perfect BJ.
2. He stands while you kneel in front of him. Adjust your position so your chin is raised, elongating your throat.
If you don’t want to swallow, make him come when you want him to come. Recognize the subtle signs that he is close to the point of ejaculation. Men are creatures of orgasmic habit. He may hold his breath or breathe with more intensity, make a certain sound—a grunt, a cry, an exclamation—or go silent. And his balls will rise closer to his body.
Now that you know his moment, you can trigger it by stimulating his G-spot with your thumb or finger pressed against his perineum, the space between his anus and the base of his testicles, or by inserting a well-lubed finger inside his anus to stimulate the G-spot from inside, but only if he is comfortable with having that done.
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