DAY 102: BIG O THURSDAY
The New Side-by-Side #1:
The Tight Embrace

The side-by-side positions are often “starter” positions. One partner is awake before the other. Awake—and horny. The best options for waking the sleeper are oral and side by side.

In the Tight Embrace position, adapted from the Kama Sutra position Transverse Lute, the couple lies in the traditional spooning position, with him facing her back.

Let’s assume he is the aggressor (though it could as easily be her). He gently rolls her to her side and wraps his arms around her in a tight embrace. To give her better clitoral stimulation when he does penetrate her, he raises one leg and rests it on her thigh.

He enters her from behind and flexes his pelvic floor muscles. She will naturally pick it up and move in time with him. He doesn’t begin thrusting until she is keeping his pace.

As they become more aroused, he loosens the embrace so they can prop themselves up on elbows. He pulls himself higher on her thigh and thrusts in this position until they are ready to move.

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