You have probably heard about chakras, points of energy located in specific places in the body. Tantra teachers talk a great deal about chakras. I wrote a Tantra book that only refers to one chakra, which may be a record for the genre. This is a chakra trick you won’t find anywhere else.
Chakra number five, located at the throat, is the chakra of creative expression. Some women can reach orgasm while performing fellatio without manual or oral clitoral stimulation. (Really, there is a physiological connection between the throat and the vagina.) If you are one of those women, this is your extra sexual energy zone. You feel the direct connection between your mouth/throat and genitals. There is a quick way to find out whether you have the potential to come while giving a blow job. Suck the head of his penis and pay attention to how your throat is responding. If it seems to quiver or vibrate faintly in time with your sucking, then you can do this.
As you are sucking him, breathe deeply and rhythmically. Imagine that your breath is a circle of fire inhaled into your nostrils, filling your mouth and throat, and exhaled through your genitals. Flex your PC muscle in time with your breathing and sucking.
It’s a thrilling way to come, especially if your orgasm and his ejaculation happen simultaneously.
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