DAY 142: QUICKIE TUESDAY
The Phone Sex Quickie

Maybe you’re both working late at your respective offices or one or both is out of town on business. Phone sex was conceived in just such erotically desperate times. But truthfully, phone sex in real life is often disappointing. Why? The partner initiating the call is in the mood and the other is distracted.

Make a date (with time limit) for a phone sex quickie. Here are some tips:

• Some people feel uncomfortable talking graphically. They may just need inspiration. Read or view sexually explicit material before the call. Consider it foreplay.

• The standard questions—What are you wearing? Are you touching yourself? Do you have an erection?—are good for creating visual images. You don’t have to answer them honestly. (“Oh, I’m wearing my old gray sweatshirt and a pair of old panties”—TMI.)

• Talk each other through your last (or a favorite) hot quickie. Be specific. “Cup my ass and pull me onto your cock. Throw your head back and moan when I enter you.”

• Put a lot of sexual energy and seductive emotion into your voice.

• Give yourself an electric boost. A small vibe, a vibrating cock ring—even porn playing silently on the computer screen—use whatever you need to intensify the experience.

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