DAY 161: SPIRITUAL SUNDAY
The Spiritual BJ

My pal Steve Otero emailed me a post from Sensuous Sadie’s blog: “The Spiritual Blow Job (No, Really!).” Her dominant taught the submissive Sadie how to perform a longer BJ as an act of worship. Although I am no submissive, as a devotee of the cock, I found this an appealing idea. I have a special relationship with the penis—or the magnificent ones capable of dick-matizing me—that is unsullied by whatever relationship I do or don’t have with its life support system, the man.

Here are some of Sadie’s tips for prolonging a BJ:

• Make prolonged eye contact and synchronize your deep breathing. Matching your breathing to his automatically slows him down, at least for a bit. And it intensifies the feeling of intimacy by making you feel more connected to one another through the mutually shared miracle of his dick.

• Suck less; lick more. The sucking brings him to orgasm.

• Use the Squeeze technique. Lightly squeeze the head of his penis when he is near ejaculation to hold him back. But don’t do that more than two or three times a session.

• Oil your breasts. Lie back and put his penis between them. Squeeze your breasts together. As he thrusts, lick or lightly suck the head of his penis on the forward stroke.

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