In DS or BDSM terms, “edge play” can refer to the dominant taking the submissive to the edge of his or her limits. But that is not how I am using the term here.
Sex researchers Dr. William Masters and Dr. Virginia Johnson concluded decades ago from their research that the outer third is the most sensitive part of the vagina—as the first third is the most sensitive part of his penis. That is likely true for most people. Yet men and women both crave deep penetration.
Use the head of his penis as her foreplay. Then have intercourse with only the first third of his penis. Keeping him at the edge will make both of you ravenous for deeper penetration, and it will feel so good when you let yourselves go there.
• Take the head of his penis in your hand and rub it against your clitoris. Use it in creative ways, like pressing the side of the head against the shaft of your clit.
• Don’t let him penetrate your vagina until he is begging for that.
• He takes shallow thrusts.
• She periodically removes his penis from her vagina and uses it to stroke her clitoris again.
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