I often use that one-line zinger: “The last time anyone had a great time doing ‘69’ was in ‘69.” Amusing, isn’t it? Truthfully, the mutual oral sex position usually looks better (onscreen) than it feels. Both the giving and the receiving of oral pleasure are intense pursuits.
If you are intensely involved in receiving, how can you be getting your best oral game on? Try taking turns. Here’s how:
Agree to the basic rule: When one is licking and sucking, the other’s mouth is in repose.
Use your signature oral moves, the ones that work best on your lover, and save new lick tricks for another time.
Start slow, with the:
• Lollipop Lick for him: Begin by licking up the raphe (the line between his testicles), up the center of the shaft, and finish with a swirl of the head.
• Ice Cream Cone for her: With a flat, wide tongue, lap her labia lips and up to her clitoris.
Take turns bringing one another to high arousal, then backing off.
Keep alternating tongues until one partner begs for release.
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