DAY 201: GET-YOUR-FREAK-ON FRIDAYAnal Toys, His and Hers
DAY 201: GET-YOUR-FREAK-ON FRIDAYFormer porn star, director/producer, author, and entrepreneur Nina Hartley warns people that they can’t expect to re-create their favorite anal sex video without a lot of lube and patience, vibes, and butt plugs. (Don’t buy anything without a flared base to keep it from going where you do not want it to go.) The anus is not self-lubricating and it was not, strictly speaking, designed for intercourse. After making sure it’s clean, lube and gently prepare it.
These are smaller—more slender and not as long—as vibes designed for insertion in the vagina. Work with the sphincter muscle by slowly circling with the vibe. Go slow until it opens. Then thrust gently.
These come in graduated sizes and gently open up the anus for play. Start small. They are made of softer materials, including silicone, than vibes are. Diamond-shaped and tapered for easy insertion, butt plugs are the secret prop you don’t see in porn flicks, because the actress takes hers out before the scene is shot. You can buy vibrating butt plugs as well.
These are strings of beads in various sizes, meant to be inserted into the anus and then gradually pulled out, creating interesting sensations.
Buy sex toys from a trusted sex toy shop or online business. I love Babeland, but also trust Good Vibrations, Booty Parlor, and some others.
If you want your lover to participate in anal intercourse, invest in the toys and give her (or him) time to discover the joys of butt play before introducing the penis or the strap-on dildo. And of course, never force anything into the anus.
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