DAY 208: GET-YOUR-FREAK-ON FRIDAY
Anal Intercourse: The Basics

If everything you know about anal sex you learned from watching porn, then you need new learning. In real life, you don’t just roll a woman over and slip it in. They don’t do it that way in porn either. Before the shoot, the actress has had an enema or three, worn a butt plug, and injected syringes of lube up her anus.

Anal intercourse can be thrilling for her as well as him, but only if it’s done right.

Here are the basics:

• Lube, lube, lube! The anus is not the vagina. It does not self-lubricate.

• Anal condoms, disposable plastic gloves, or finger cots. Bacteria that live in the anus can give him and her a urinary tract infection—or worse.

• Preparation. She needs to be highly aroused. Pull out all the foreplay stops. Use your best oral and manual moves. Insert first one lubricated and gloved finger into her anus, then add another finger.

• When she is ready, penetrate her slowly. Don’t force your way past the sphincter muscle. Help her relax it by stroking her clitoris (with a clean hand). Let her control the speed and depth of entry by pushing against you.

• Don’t thrust vigorously the way you’ve seen it done in porn. (Do you know that many of those actresses have required anal repair surgeries?) Follow her lead on how deep and how fast.

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