DAY 231: SPIRITUAL SUNDAY
How to Give Her a Whole-Body Orgasm

You watched her masturbate to a whole-body orgasm, and you’ve done it yourself. With her help, “give” her the whole-body experience. It’s a slow, sensual ride.

The techniques you’ve both learned for prolonging intercourse and extending and expanding orgasm were largely unknown to Western culture until the nineteenth century, but they were practiced in other cultures for thousands of years. The ancient Polynesians, for example, believed intercourse should last an hour. The Arabs practiced imsak, meaning “retention,” with the man pulling out when he felt close to orgasm, but continuing to stimulate his partner with his hand or mouth until he was able to resume thrusting again.

Put a little imsak in your intercourse today. Foreplay is for her only. Arouse her with your hands and mouth, but stop short of giving her an orgasm.

Get into a comfortable intercourse position (likely to change several times) and thrust slowly, practicing imsak when you are too aroused.

Alternate oral and manual moves, and bring her to orgasm once or several times, each time massaging her vulva, inner thighs, and lower belly as if you were drawing the contraction outward. Try not to reach orgasm until she is sated—and she may come one more time.

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