DAY 242: BIG O THURSDAY
Alternating Orgasms

Take turns having an orgasm and watching your lover come. You can do this as part of mutual masturbation, with oral or manual sex, or during intercourse. Both try to last as long as possible and do so by halting stimulation to let the other “catch up.” The one who can’t take it any longer comes first.

Take turns arousing one another. During intercourse, for example, he can stop thrusting and stroke her clitoris and suck her nipples. When she is highly aroused, he stops or slows her stimulation and thrusts again.

If they are masturbating side by side, the partner who is near orgasm stops and watches the other.

Fellatio/cunnilingus or hand jobs are handled the same way: Bring one partner close to orgasm, then switch off and stimulate the other.

It’s exciting to watch your partner come. Being desperate for release yourself as you watch gives it a special edge.

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