Prepare him to receive anal sex in the same way he prepares you (see page 255). Key word: lube!
• Make sure he is aroused and well lubricated before you penetrate his anus.
• Insert the dildo slowly.
• Let him direct the depth of penetration and speed of thrusting.
• Thrust confidently, like you know what you’re doing.
A SexyPrime reader wrote this about her first experience penetrating her husband:
I talked him into it. We ordered a kit online. But when I opened it, I thought: Oh, no! He had some pangs of doubt and fear, too. We drank a little wine and said, “Oh, what the hell, let’s see what this is all about.”
We were both surprised at how much we enjoyed switching roles, me thrusting, him receiving. It changed our relationship—for the better.
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