You’re sitting side by side on the sofa watching TV or in bed reading or working on your laptops. Reach over and caress his (or her) shoulder. Run you fingers up through his hair. Turn toward him and open your arms.
When he moves toward you, guide his head to your breasts. Caress his head.
Using your finger pads, slowly work his scalp in a gentle back-and-forth motion. He may fall asleep in your arms.
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