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The SM Fantasy

As I said a few weeks ago, most women (and men) do not want to act out their SM fantasies as aggressively as they imagine them. Some do, and that’s fine, too, as long as everyone is on the same page. You may find that reading SM stories is nice foreplay for down-and-dirty sex that leaves you sore in a good way, but not marked.

Here is one from a SexyPrime reader, a man in his early forties:

It started with a mutual admiration for the literary qualities and arousal power of The Story of O and some herbal relaxation of inhibitions. She liked to be spanked. She asked me to pull her hair while we were fucking. No, harder, really hard! We went shopping in a hardware store and she tried on dog collars in the aisle. We ended up deciding that leather beat metal cuffs for us. She asked me to slap her face while we were going at it, not hard, not to leave marks, just enough to get her off even more than she was already getting off. When she asked me to use my belt, she did want marks on her backside and she wanted me to fuck her from behind while her ass was still burning from the stripes—and she said she loved it that way because it made her feel like I was using her and that got her off even more.

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She liked to please. She liked not having to decide. She liked to suck cock. She liked to take it deep and she liked it when I took control. I hadn’t really ever seen myself as the Master type (and still don’t, really, although I know that I can do it and I know that it can really arouse me), but I do like the woman I’m with to get plenty of whatever gets her off, and she got off on submission, some pain, and surrender of control, and so that’s what I gave her. It turned out that it got me off really well, too, but I think that was as much about seeing her powerful response and feeling a sense of power at being able to take it further and further the more she showed what she wanted. She liked being played with, feeling a little used, obeying orders, and getting off thereby. I liked fucking her while she was getting off, and it was a marvelous mutual feedback arousal and release system while it lasted.

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