We hug family members and friends from the waist up, with our pelvises pushed back so as not to touch “inappropriately.” In a society where even business associates sometimes hug, people are so accustomed to the pelvis-pulled-back hug that they give the same kind of casual hug to their lovers.
Put your pelvis into your hug today—when there is no opportunity for “sex.”
Put your arms around your man (or woman) and hug with your full body, thrusting your pelvis into his.
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