DAY 346: ORAL WEDNESDAY
Out of the “She Comes First” Rut

Many men consider cunnilingus the way to give her an orgasm before intercourse, when they get theirs. That philosophy, popularized by the boomers led Dr. Ian Kerner to write two excellent books, She Comes First and He Comes Next. But even a steady diet of steak and lobster would be a rut. This is a sexual rut.

Two quick routes out of the “She Comes First” rut:

• Cunnilingus as extreme foreplay. Withdraw your tongue before she comes. Give her that orgasm during intercourse, when you have yours. Use either your hand or a finger vibe to stimulate her clitoris as you thrust.

• Another way to look at cunnilingus—you come too, while you’re performing it. Put a vibrating bullet inside your pants or insert a vibrating butt plug or both. Pay attention to her responses as you lick and suck her. As her flesh pulsates and throbs in your mouth, imagine those sensations traveling throughout your body. Feel her moans and signs of pleasure deep inside your cock. Let her arousal ignite your own. Give yourself a few strokes, and you will come, too.

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