DAY 353:ORAL WEDNESDAYNo More Faking!
DAY 353:ORAL WEDNESDAYSurveys consistently show that 80 percent (and higher) of women fake orgasm, at least occasionally. Ladies, please. This has got to stop.
Faking reinforces his belief that his moves (that aren’t working) are stellar. If he is your life partner, you have set up the classic disappointing sex scenario: She never comes and loses interest in sex but he keeps pestering her for it because he has no idea that she’s never come. And if he is a casual lover, you just made it harder for another woman to be honest with him.
Declare today Unilateral Forgiveness of Orgasmic Debt Day. Don’t hurt him by telling him how long and how often you’ve faked it. But do tell him what you want, what you need, and how to give it to you NOW. End the faking, and claim your pleasure!
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