We all have an orgasm story. For some women, the story is: I can’t come with him or I can’t come at all. For some men, the story is: I come too fast. Those may have been your stories a year ago. Or your stories may have been: I wish I had more orgasms or I wish I had orgasms more easily. Or maybe you wished for multiple orgasms, or, in his case, a shorter refractory period.
Our stories about ourselves—whether sex or money or family or others—are important because they influence how we behave, what we expect, and how we share ourselves with others, including our most intimate partners.
What’s your orgasm story now?
Tell one another your story, or write it, if you are more comfortable reading than telling.
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