Blur
Little Lamb,
Here I am,
Come and lick
My white neck.
WILLIAM BLAKE
1
It was a Christian idea, sacrificing
oneself to attain the object of one’s desire.
I was weak and he was like opium to me,
so present and forceful. I believed I saw myself
through him, as if in a bucket being drawn
up a well, cold and brown as tea.
My horse was wet all that summer.
I pushed him, he pushed me back—proud, lonely,
disappointed—until I rode him,
or he rode me, in tight embrace, and life went on.
I lay whole nights—listless, sighing, gleaming
like a tendril on a tree—withdrawn
into some desiccated realm of beauty.
The hand desired, but the heart refrained.
2
The strong sad ritual between us could not be broken:
the empathetic greeting; the apologies
and reproaches; the narrow bed of his flesh;
the fear of being shown whole in the mirror
of another’s fragmentation; the climbing on;
the unambiguous freedom born of submission;
the head, like a rock, hefted on and off moist earth;
the rough language; the impermeable core
of one’s being made permeable; the black hair
and shining eyes; and afterward, the marrowy
emissions, the gasping made liquid; the torso,
like pale clay or a plank, being dropped;
the small confessional remarks that inscribe
the soul; the indolence; the being alone.
3
Then everything decanted and modulated,
as it did in a horse’s eye, and the self—
pure, classical, like a figure carved from stone—
was something broken off again.
Two ways of being: one, seamless
saturated color (not a bead of sweat),
pure virtuosity, bolts of it; the other,
raw and unsocialized, “an opera of impurity,”
like super-real sunlight on a bruise.
I didn’t want to have to choose.
It didn’t matter anymore what was true
and what was not. Experience was not facts,
but uncertainty. Experience was not events,
but feelings, which I would overcome.
4
Waking hungry for flesh, stalking flesh
no matter where—in the dunes, at the Pantheon,
in the Tuileries, at the White Party—
cursing and fumbling with flesh, smelling flesh,
clutching flesh, sucking violently on flesh,
cleaning up flesh, smiling at flesh, running away
from flesh, and later loathing flesh,
half of me was shattered, half was not,
like a mosaic shaken down by earthquake.
All the things I loved—a horse, a wristwatch,
a hall mirror—and all the things I endeavored to be—
truthful, empathetic, funny—presupposed
a sense of self locked up in a sphere,
which would never be known to anyone.
5
Running, lifting, skipping rope at the gym,
I was a man like a bronze man;
I was my body—with white stones
in my eye sockets, soldered veins in my wrists,
and a delicately striated, crepelike scrotum.
Sighs, grunts, exhales, salt stains, dingy mats,
smeared mirrors, and a faintly sour smell
filled the gulf between the mind and the world,
but the myth of love for another remained
bright and plausible, like an athlete painted
on the slope of a vase tying his sandal.
In the showers, tears fell from our hair,
as if from bent glistening sycamores.
It was as if earth were taking us back.
6
In front of me, you are sleeping. I sleep also.
Probably you are right that I project
the ambiguities of my own desires.
I feel I only know you at the edges.
Sometimes in the night I jump up panting,
see my young gray head in the mirror,
and fall back, as humans do, from the cold glass.
I don’t have the time to invest in what
I purport to desire. But when you open
your eyes shyly and push me on the shoulder,
all I am is impulse and longing
pulled forward by the rope of your arm,
I, flesh-to-flesh, sating myself
on blurred odors of the soft black earth.