When You Lose Yourself

When you find yourself wondering

how you’re going to pass the time

and you scramble for arrangements

to fill the uneasy emptiness

When you find yourself wishing you were someone else

and stare enviously at the pages of magazines

wishing for better or more

When you catch yourself feeling that something’s not quite right

but can’t pin down what it is

and solitude feels unnerving

as if the room were filled with restless ghosts

When you catch your mind clinging to future dreams

looking forward to holidays a little too much

and you feel hungry for noise and activity

to immerse yourself in and forget —

It’s only a sign that you’ve lost yourself

that there’s a fog of worries and responsibilities

whirling through your mind

standing between you and the warmth and light

and spacious radiance of being.

It’s only a sign that you’ve pushed yourself so hard

that you’ve dried up like a river in summer

and can’t meet up with the ocean.

You don’t need to do anything —

you need to do nothing

to lift yourself out of the noise and stress

until the fog has cleared

and your being has settled to stillness

and the connection forms itself again.