FOUR COMMON MISTAKES

Many parents think they are giving effective time outs and complain that it doesn’t work. Time outs work, but they must be used correctly. These are the four most common mistakes parents make in using time outs:

1. They use only time out.
2. They don’t use time out enough.
3. They expect their children to sit quietly.
4. They use time out as a deterrent or punishment.

By setting the right parameters regarding time out, your children will come back into your control. They will once again reconnect with their inner prime directive, which is to follow your guidance and cooperate. Let’s explore each of these four mistakes in greater detail.