WHAT Wendy most loved about Jim was his optimism. ‘It’s just my forehead growing,’ he joked when he started losing his hair. ‘Something else will come up,’ he said, when he got retrenched from his job. ‘More for you to love!’ he quipped when he began packing on the pounds. Then there was the time, soon after that, when Wendy told him she was going away for a ‘platonic weekend’ with her former boyfriend, Logan, back in town after his divorce. ‘Always nice to catch up with old friends, isn’t it,’ Jim said, weeping silently in his typically optimistic way.