Notes

Part 1  A World of Broken Lovers

1. C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves (New York: Harcourt, Brace, 1960), 6, 119.

Chapter 1  The Mystery of Being Royal

1. C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (New York: HarperOne, 2001), 206.

Chapter 2  The Mystery of Needing to Be Needed

1. Jeremiah 17:5.

Chapter 3  The Mystery of an Orphan Identity

1. John 14:18.

Chapter 4  The Mystery of Fatherlessness

1. “The Extent of Fatherlessness,” National Center for Fathering, accessed April 18, 2016, http://www.fathers.com/statistics-and-research/the-extent-of-fatherlessness/.

Chapter 6  The Mystery of Our Deathly Freedom

1. Galatians 5:13 NLT.

Chapter 7  The Mystery of Being Deceived

1. Søren Kierkegaard et al., Works of Love (New York: HarperPerennial, 2009), 23.

Chapter 8  The Mystery of What Love Isn’t

1. Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov: A Novel in Four Parts and an Epilogue, trans. David McDuff (New York: Penguin, 2003), 48.

Chapter 9  The Mystery of Freedom and Suicide

1. Søren Kierkegaard, The Sickness Unto Death: A Christian Psychological Exposition for Upbuilding and Awakening, trans. Howard V. Hong and Edna H. Hong (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 1983), 32–33.

Chapter 10  The Mystery of Rage and Questions

1. Andrea Danko, “Change.” Used by permission.

Part 2  Finding True Love

1. Amanda Cook, “Pieces,” Brave New World, © 2015 Bethel Music. Used by permission.

Chapter 12  The Mystery of Silence

1. Justin Taylor, “Charles Templeton: Missing Jesus,” The Gospel Coalition, May 9, 2013, https://blogs.thegospelcoalition.org/justintaylor/2013/05/09/charles-templeton-missing-jesus/.

2. Jeremiah 29:13.

Chapter 13  The Mystery of Renewal

1. Lewis, Four Loves, 121.

Chapter 14  The Mystery of Choosing to Be a Daughter

1. Sarah Patrick, “The Joy of the Lord Is My Strength,” Sarah K Patrick, May 1, 2013, http://www.sarahkpatrick.com/the-joy-of-the-lord-is-my-strength/.

Chapter 16  The Mystery of Loving an Idea versus Loving a Person

1. Ephesians 4:15 BLB.

2. John 14:15 NET, emphasis added.

Chapter 17  The Mystery of Marrying Jesus

1. Nick Hall, “Couch Sessions with Nick Hall—Identity (Part 1),” YouTube video, 3:18, uploaded by Ransom TeeVee Jan 30, 2014, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpPjL0Xt77o.

Chapter 21  The Mystery of Boundaries

1. Elisabeth Elliot, Passion and Purity: Learning to Bring Your Love Life Under Christ’s Control, 2nd ed. (Grand Rapids: Revell, 2013), 130.

Conclusion

2. Lewis, Mere Christianity, 179.