Kiyo
I HAVE VERY FEW memories of what went on at the party in the Hollywood Hills that afternoon, because whoever I met and whatever I saw was erased by the presence of Amilda Kiyoko Tachibana McIntyre, known to her friends as Kiyo. Kiyo was a beautiful Eurasian. With her round face, onyx eyes, and straight jet-black hair that flowed like a waterfall to just below her tight buttocks, she was irresistible magic to a sailor newly home on leave.
Kiyo had been a singer and a dancer and had performed in several feature films. She also taught piano and, in the years before the dawning of the Age of Aquarius, was an astrologer to many entertainers and other show-business personalities. She was thirty, sophisticated, smart, eloquent, and she knew from the moment I walked through her front door and our eyes met that I was a goner. We engaged in small talk as she deftly fended off the attentions of other guests. Then, as the afternoon wore on and guests began to leave, we found ourselves touching one another and finding excuses to cross one another’s paths in parts of her house where no one else would disturb us. Maybe there were others looking at us, but it seemed as if Kiyo and I had been transported to a world of our own. My mother left the party, but I remained behind, transfixed by Kiyo’s beauty and apparent interest in me and determined to find out more about her. She was the most enchanting person I had ever met.
I stayed with her that night, and through the weekend. I couldn’t get enough of her. For the first time in my life I was in love. Sunday morning she served hot tea, fresh fruit, and homemade pastries, and her eyes shone as she spoke. “I did your chart last night,” she said as she poured the tea. “You are a Scorpio and Taurus is your rising sign.” I smiled back at her. “No,” I answered. “You are my rising sign.”
She laughed. “Yes, well, there’s that, too. But seriously Steven, you have an amazing chart. You will make lots of money in real estate and you will—” She paused as I touched her arm. “Kiyo, I don’t know anything about that stuff,” I said. “And, to be honest, I don’t care about it. All I care about is you and me. I’ve never known anyone like you, and I love the way I feel when I’m with you.” Her voice turned serious. “You must not tell anyone about us, not your mother, not your brothers, no one. Understand?”
I shook my head. “Why?” I asked, without really wanting to know the truth. “Are you married or something?”
“No,” she said. “It’s just that you must promise me you will not say anything to anyone about us. Promise me that. Give me your word of honor.” I gave her my word.
While I agonized over the slow passing of the final months before my military discharge, I also discovered that Kiyo was a very assertive person. She had an in-your-face attitude that had begun to set off my warning bells. But I ignored them, because I told myself that I was in love. Unbeknownst to me, Kiyo had driven up to the Navy base, demanded to see my C.O., told him we were getting married, and asked him if it would be possible for me to get an early discharge in July. She said she wanted me to start college in late August. “You said what to him?” I asked her in disbelief. “Why would you say such a thing?”
“Oh,” she answered. “It’s just my Leo way. I have six planets in Leo, so sometimes I get a bit pushy, but it’s not really me.”
But it really was. The following weekend, at her insistence, we drove to the nearest state where we could marry without parental consent because I was still a minor: I wouldn’t be twenty-one for another four months. I hadn’t told my mother about Kiyo, nor had I made any contact with my brothers. I had simply dropped out of sight to be with Kiyo. I ignored my instincts, which kept shouting, “Careful! Wait!” I also ignored my emotions when I found myself eyeing lasciviously the person who was performing our one-witness marriage ceremony—Miss Idaho of 1954. She had gone on from winning her state’s beauty pageant to become a justice of the peace in Twin Falls, Idaho. On our drive back we stopped overnight at Yosemite National Park and stood out near the edge of the high ridge, embracing each other, looking exactly like newlyweds should.
An old man watching us, who looked as if he’d been prospecting in the surrounding mountains since the Gold Rush of 1849, said to me, “You be careful, son. In another two years, she’ll be pushing you off the edge of that cliff.” Kiyo and I turned around as he walked silently away. I looked at her and teased, “Nice guy. He must be a pushy Leo.”
Had I been even a little knowledgeable about astrological combinations I would have known that Scorpios and Leos don’t make for an easy relationship. Kiyo was fire and I was water, and the ensuing three years of our marriage generated a lot of steam as each of us tried to force the other to adjust. Kiyo knew a lot of Hollywood people and some of them, like Jane Russell, attended her astrology classes, respected her knowledge, and were genuinely interested in what she was teaching. And Kiyo’s relationships with her clients got us on the guest list of lots of Hollywood personalities, particularly with Jane Russell and her husband, Bob Waterfield, the great former quarterback for the Los Angeles Rams.
I was slightly disconcerted that most of Kiyo’s friends seemed much older than she. And, of course, since I was ten years younger than Kiyo, I felt awkward and uncomfortable with many of them. They would invariably remark, “Steven, you look so young. How old are you?” They always seemed surprised at my answer, “I am young; I’m twenty-one.” I began to feel that talking about age around Kiyo and her friends was taboo.
One Sunday morning, about three months after we had married, Kiyo threw the classified section of the Los Angeles Times at me and said, “Look, the Los Angeles Police Department is hiring. The starting salary is a hundred dollars a month, more than you’re making now.” I read the ad out loud:
LAPD WANTS YOU!
Are you one of the four in a hundred applicants that will make it through the process to our police academy training? Would you like an exciting and rewarding career in law enforcement and retire in twenty years? Apply at City Hall now!
I was working at the time as an orderly at Kaiser Hospital in Hollywood, emptying bedpans, moving patients, making sure that whatever slop came out of a patient was cleaned up before the next patient was brought in. It was a job I hated, certainly not my idea of an “exciting and rewarding” career. I looked back at Kiyo, who had been staring at me in silence, and asked, “What does a policeman do? Write tickets? Direct traffic?” A cop? I knew nothing about it, and cared less. Maybe I could be a detective, I thought, just like Joe Friday on Dragnet. After another week of Kiyo’s prodding and her wily offhand comments of, “I think guys in uniform are very sexy,” and her prompting, “We could sure use the extra money,” I’d had enough. I applied at city hall for both LAPD and the sheriff’s department.
Two weeks after I had passed both entrance exams and had been rejected by the sheriff’s department at the in-person interview for being too young, I was called in for my oral at LAPD. That went better. I fit their job description as if I’d come right out of central casting. I was a young, trim, tall WASP who racked up strong written scores on the exam, was married, and had four years of military training. At that time, the department was trying to rid itself of the old image of the fat sloppy cop stealing an apple. They were looking for young, idealistic men that they could mold into professionals. I was what my interviewers said was the “new breed.”
I took the psych test, convincing the department psychological evaluator that, even though my father was a psychiatrist, I wasn’t neurotic, or worse. Then I underwent the background check in which the department’s investigators checked out every movement I had made on this planet from birth, including personal interviews with out-of-state Navy buddies and neighbors from old addresses ten years back. The only smudge on my background check was a drunken brawl I had been involved in while on Guam, where I punched out a fellow sailor in a bar and got arrested by the MPs. Actually, I think the investigators liked that tidbit: it gave me just enough macho credibility.
But when a few months passed following my original application and exams without any word from the department, I began to get worried. I believed I had made good impressions in person, on paper, and in the difficult physical agility tests. And during the process I had evolved from an emotionally blasé, take-it-or-leave-it attitude to a strong feeling that I really wanted this job. Finally, on a Friday afternoon in mid-January 1963, I received a phone call from a secretary in LAPD’s personnel division, informing me that I was scheduled to report to their office the following Monday, January 14, at 9:00 A.M., to meet with the captain.
I was a half-hour early and very nervous as I sat on the long bench outside of room 311 at the police administration building. I knew from other applicants that the civil service standard operating procedure for acceptance or rejection to the police academy was by mail. Why then was I being called in personally to speak with the captain? At which point a heavyset man in his fifties walked down the hall, stood in front of the locked door, turned to look down at me, frowned, and asked, “Hodel?” I stood up, answering, “Yes, sir.” He put his key in the lock and turned it decisively. “I’m Captain Sansing,” he said over the loud clack of the deadbolt snapping back into the door lock. “You’re early—come on in, we might as well get this over with before the others arrive.”
I knew from his tone and the way he said “over with” that I was finished, hadn’t made it. But why? What had I done? The burly captain opened the door, and I followed him to the rear, where we entered his private office. He shut the door behind me.
I stood at full attention in front of his desk, glancing at the silver nameplate, “Captain Earle Sansing, Commander, Personnel Division.” He sat down in the large leather chair and said, “I’m not going to mince words, son. I am not going to certify you for acceptance to the police academy. You have no business being a police officer. I know all about your family and your father. It would be a waste of the taxpayers’ money to let you go to the academy. It would be a total waste of their time, your time, and my time. I am going to reject your certification.”
Standing there in disbelief and intimidated by this man who held the final word, I responded with a mixture of controlled anger and passion. I spoke with real emotion, and before I realized it, I was making a formal plea.
“Captain, sir,” I began. “I have spent the last five months preparing for this moment. During that time I have tried to focus my heart and my mind toward one purpose, one goal, making it to the academy. I have finally done that. I have proven myself to be of fit character, mentally, physically, and morally. I don’t know what you mean about knowing my father. I can only assume you are referring to his trial back in 1949. I know nothing of it other than he was found innocent of some charges that my half-sister Tamar made against him. He left us right after the trial, and my mother never spoke about it. I do know that I am not my father. I am myself. I also know that it is I, not my father, who wants to become a policeman. It is I, not my father, who has worked and sweated and struggled through each separate test toward this opportunity. Please, sir, do not take away this chance from me now. Let me prove myself in the academy. All I am asking from you is the chance for me to prove myself.”
The veteran captain never took his eyes off of me, studying every inch of me, as if he were looking at an X-ray, sizing me up as if he were doing long division in his head. I also got the impression that he was trying to use his street smarts and intuition, which any experienced cop develops over the years on the job. It’s what enables him to trust his gut feelings and not second-guess himself when he has to make a shoot/no shoot decision. Captain Sansing was taking a mental photograph of me that morning, looking for something in me that he could compute and confirm a decision he was trying to reach. A full minute passed, but it seemed like an eternal silence. Then he blinked, and I thought I saw his hardness change to a twinkle.
“Hodel,” he said, “I am going to certify you to the academy. I shouldn’t, and I know I shouldn’t, but I am. I say again, it’s a waste of time and money. You will start the academy three weeks from today. Now get the fuck out of my office!” Thus began my career with LAPD.
Now, with a steady and secure civil service job and a hundred-dollar-a-month increase in her purse, Kiyo decided we should buy a new home, and almost immediately one came our way. A good friend of hers, who was married to the old-time cowboy-in-black hero Lash LaRue (whose black whip was as fast as his gun), had recently put her Laurel Canyon home up for sale. At the top of a hundred concrete steps, it was more like an estate and it had a Hansel-and-Gretel roof.
Veteran movie director Tay Garnett, it was rumored, had built the home for a beautiful young actress he had fallen in love with, at a cost of more than $100,000, several fortunes in the days of the early studios. Then, just as the final bricks were being put into place, the fairy tale ended when the young starlet ran off to Malibu with a handsome young actor. Heartbroken, Garnett sold the house and ultimately Lash and his wife bought the place.
I especially liked Laurel Canyon, a community of homes high in the Hollywood Hills. The area was filled with actors, writers, artists, bohemians about to be reborn as hippies, lots of right-brain people. And I liked their energy. Kiyo offered Lash and his wife $37,500, which was the amount of money they had paid for the home fifteen years earlier. They happily accepted, figuring they did well to get their money back, and Kiyo and I moved in a few months later. I didn’t know how we would ever pay the mortgage, but Kiyo simply told me to hand over my paycheck every two weeks and she’d take care of the rest.
After a year I’d completed my probation both on the LAPD and in my marriage. I’d followed all of Kiyo’s rules, my training officer’s rules, and the rules of any patrol sergeant who happened to be sitting at a desk in the divisions where I worked. I had kept my promise to Kiyo: neither my brothers nor my mother knew we were living together, much less married. As far as my family was concerned, I had ceased to exist. However, I did write a short message to my father in Manila simply telling him I had married “a Japanese woman” but provided no additional information. I don’t remember if he answered my note.
If I had any doubts about my marriage with Kiyo or the growing differences between us, they were obliterated by the Watts riots that took over all our lives in the summer of 1965. Overnight the city became a third-world capital, aflame with massive rioting and running gun battles. I and five or six other uniformed officers were assigned to ride around the streets of South Central, jammed tightly into a single black-and-white, each of us armed with a shotgun. That was our sole function—a “show of force”—moving targets driving around in circles for twelve hours a day, never firing a shot, never making an arrest, and never getting out of the car except to grab a coffee or take a leak. We just drove in circles as a “perimeter control,” more afraid of ourselves and the loaded shotguns we carried than of any rioters. The city would require full armored military occupation before order could be restored, and the myth of LAPD’s invincibility vanished.
The riots had barely ended when, in October, my father sent a message that he would be in town for two days and asked me to call him at the Biltmore Hotel so he could meet with me and my “new bride.” Upon hearing the news, Kiyo seemed oddly excited and urged me to call him immediately and schedule it. We arranged to meet the following afternoon in the lobby of the Biltmore at 6:00 P.M. and have dinner together.
That whole afternoon Kiyo acted rather bizarre. She had bought a new red dress for the occasion and had spent three hours on her hair and makeup, as if she were going to audition for a leading role. She was stunning, and all heads followed her as we walked through the Olive Street entrance into the lobby at 5:50 P.M. We waited in the lobby bar, she with her chardonnay and me with my double scotch, for Dad to make his appearance on the double stairway leading from the elevators to the main lobby. Father, as was his custom, was fifteen minutes late as he approached us with the beautiful Diana on his arm. I blinked as I looked up at them because Diana and Kiyo seemed to resemble each other. They didn’t actually look alike, but they carried themselves in the same way I could almost see sparks flying between them.
As Dad and Diana came within four feet of us, Kiyo looked directly at him, smiled broadly, and said with more intimacy than any stranger would have dared, “Hello, George!” Father looked at my wife, at first blankly, then, as he remembered, his eyes slowly changed from surprise to shock. Uncharacteristically, his speech faltered, and his voice broke as he replied, “Hello, Kiyo.”
Diana and I looked at each other, both aware that something very strange had just occurred between the two of them. I said, “Hello, Diana, it’s been five years, good to see you. This is my wife, Kiyo.” Diana extended her hand, but Kiyo ignored her and kept staring at my father and smiling. I said, trying to paint over the awkwardness of the moment with some small talk, “Dad, I understand you two knew each other when Kiyo was quite young.” He had recovered his composure now, and there was fire in his eyes as he replied, “Yes, we did. She was quite young, quite young indeed. Steven, I tried calling you before you left your home to inform you that, unfortunately, we won’t be able to have dinner after all. Some very urgent business matters have come up unexpectedly, and we are on our way now to try and put out some fires and deal with them. We’re off tomorrow for New York, so perhaps the next time through town we can have more time.”
He reached for Diana’s arm, and began walking back to the steps that led to the elevators. In a tone that carried finality and total dismissal, without turning around, he said, “Goodbye, Kiyo.” I turned toward Kiyo, confused, trying to comprehend what had just occurred in the past ninety seconds. She had tears in her eyes. I walked her over to a bar table, sat her down, ordered us each another drink, and, trying to be compassionate but failing utterly, said, “What the fuck was that all about? What the hell is going on, Kiyo?” I could detect both disgust and defeat in her reply: “Not here. Not now. Let’s go home first.”
I had never seen my father out of control and at a loss for words. That was a first. He had clearly been shaken just seeing Kiyo. After we got back to Laurel Canyon, I demanded some answers.
“You are still such a child, Steven,” she began. “You know nothing of life or love or feelings. Yes, I knew your mother and father when I was young. I met your father for the first time at a bus bench in Hollywood. I was sitting there alone and he stopped his car, got out, and walked up to me. He was immaculately dressed in a brown suit, with a cashmere overcoat, the handsomest man I had ever seen. He handed me his business card and said, ‘Excuse me, miss, but I am a physician and I am also a professional photographer. You are the most beautiful young lady I have ever seen. I would like to photograph you, and will of course pay you for your time.’ His charm was irresistible. He gave me a ride home and we became friends. I was very young and impressionable and quickly developed a crush on your father back then. That’s all.”
Somehow, I didn’t think that was all. I was determined to find out the truth. I was taking courses at Los Angeles City College three nights a week at that time, and the following night as usual left home, headed for my sociology class. But I didn’t feel like going to class; I felt like having a drink. I pulled my car into the local tavern at the bottom of the canyon near Sunset Boulevard where I’d decided I’d drink instead of think that night. It took four double scotches before I had the courage to drive back up the hill and get the rest of the story from Kiyo. I parked the car and took the hundred steps that led to our oversized front door three steps at a time. As I approached the door, I could see through the window that she had lit a fire in the fireplace.
My second glance froze me in place. I saw two figures lying in front of the fire. Kiyo was naked; her companion had his shirt off and was lying prone against her body, kissing her. I slipped my key into the door lock and entered as Kiyo grabbed for her robe on the couch. The young man grabbed for his shirt on the hearth. Kiyo stood up defiantly as she tied her robe. “It’s not what you think. Tom is an actor. He has a love scene in a film. We were . . .” Tom paled at the sight of the gun holstered on my left hip, clearly visible under my open sport coat. He stumbled for words: “It’s true. I have this part. I have the script at home. . . . I can show you.”
The young man standing in front of me with trembling hands as he tried to button his shirt was almost a mirror of myself in stature and age. I moved my hand toward my gun and I actually weighed the options in front of me. I wanted to draw and fire. I wanted to take every bit of the hatred that was coursing through me at that moment and force it through the nozzle of my off-duty revolver. Just the sight of his bare chest was compelling me to blow huge holes in it. But even filled with liquor, I knew he wasn’t worth prison, and neither was she. I fought the urge.
“If you’re not out of my house in five seconds,” I said in a low growl that I’d never heard myself make before, “I will blow your fucking head off. And if you ever call or see my wife again, as God is my witness, I will kill you.”
The young man bolted for the door and took the hundred steps down six at a time. My hatred now turned back full force to Kiyo. “You fucking bitch! How many others have you fucked behind my back? How many other cocks have you sucked while I was sitting in class at night? Tell me! Answer me!” Kiyo turned and walked toward the dining room. “You’re so immature, Steven,” she said. “You’re not my husband—you’re my child.”
My hands were shaking as I fought to control the anger and hatred I felt for this woman. I knew I had to get out of the house and away before I lost control. My job had shown me what happened when men and women lost control, and I was now part of the job. I kept my weapon in its holster and walked out of the house.
The following afternoon, I had my partner return with me to the house and we parked the black-and-white in front of the steps. Moving day. I knew she was gone to teach piano. All I wanted from the house were a few personal papers and my clothes. Within an hour we had all of my personal effects loaded into the back of the car. I went to the study to look for my passport, birth certificate, and other personal papers. I riffled through her desk, but they were nowhere to be found, but there was a bank savings account with her name on it, “Kiyo Hodel.”
I opened the passbook and stared at the balance: $4,500. Jesus Christ! Where did that money come from? I was proud of our joint savings account, into which we’d managed to stash $400, but this was like finding another set of business books. What was going on? The next folder I saw in her desk was labeled “Astrological Charts.” I thought to myself, “Screw her, she’s not keeping mine in here.” I opened the folder and my chart was on top. I pulled it from the stack and looked at the second horoscope with its circle and symbols and read the name “Amilda Kiyoko Tachibana, born in Boston, Massachusetts, August 2, 1920.” I stared at the year: “1920.” That meant she wasn’t thirty-three, as I believed, but forty-five! Could it be?
I dropped my partner off at Van Nuys police station, where I was then assigned, took the rest of the afternoon off, and drove to my mother’s apartment in North Hollywood. I told her everything. After Mother got over the shock of seeing me, she sat in horror as I told her of my elopement and secret marriage to Kiyo, and of Kiyo’s insistence and my sworn oath not to tell anyone, especially my family, of our marriage. I told Mother of our recent meeting with Father, and his strange reaction, and then my returning home unexpectedly two nights ago and finding Kiyo in the embrace of another man. Finally, I related the discovery of the chart showing her birth date was 1920. Was it true? Was she really forty-five? What did she know about Kiyo?
Mother sat in silence for several minutes, and then she cried as she told me the true story of Kiyo and my father. “I had no idea when I said, ‘Let’s go to a party at Kiyo’s house’ that any of this could have happened. I can’t believe it has.” She lit a cigarette while she searched for the right words to continue her story:
“Yes, Kiyo is forty-five,” she continued. “Your father brought her home one night after seeing her standing waiting for a bus or taxi, something like that. I’m not sure exactly how they met; it’s been so long. She was a student at the Chouinard Art Institute, and the war was on. They were arresting all the Japanese off the streets and in their houses, and she lived with us on Valentine Street. She was very young and very beautiful, and he felt sorry for her, and was afraid she’d be interned like the others. Then she moved out and away and we lost track of her. After the war, we heard she had married, and she and her husband Brook used to come to the Franklin House to our parties. They later divorced, and she married again. Before that party I took you to, I hadn’t seen her in years.”
I called a lawyer and filed for divorce that same week. It became final a year later. Kiyo and I never spoke again, and I heard from Rumor Central that she had remarried, or was living with a man even younger than me. She continued to teach astrology classes and found her fifteen minutes of fame, which included her picture and a small article in Time magazine as a recognized “astrologer to the Hollywood stars.” She died from cancer while she was still in her mid-fifties, about ten years after our divorce.
My only explanation for Kiyo’s interest in me was her private moment of truth in those brief minutes in the lobby at the Biltmore Hotel when I introduced her to my father as my wife. To her, it was all worth it for the “Hello, George.”
In that single moment, Kiyo had exacted her revenge for the grudge she held against him. Twenty years earlier, in her youth and innocence, she had loved him and succumbed to his seduction. His conquest complete, Father had cast her aside and quickly moved on to other women and other loves. It was a slow road for her to travel, but she would be avenged. Her moment came in the lobby of the Biltmore, as she was introduced as Kiyo Hodel, his son’s wife. Standing there, ignorant of the drama, I was hoping and praying that Dad would be impressed with my choice of a wife. He wasn’t the only Hodel who knew how to pick beautiful and sophisticated women!
In the following days, after the discovery of Kiyo’s infidelity, her lies about her age, and Mother’s explanations about her true relationship with Father during the war years, I was shaken to my core, filled with the rage and hatred that only youth can know. However, it would not be for another thirty-four years, until I saw Kiyo’s picture in my father’s album after his death, that the full impact of Dad and Kiyo would begin to dawn on me. Then only gradually did I come to know the truth. His love for her was no weekend romance. Her picture was there, hidden with the rest. Carried for fifty years in his sanctum sanctorum. He had loved her!