CHAPTER 1

KNOW THYSELF

“Where the needs of the world and your talents cross, there lies your vocation.”

It’s now time to see if your natural characteristics and “talents” are those of an entrepreneur. This chapter will give you a big picture context. The objective is to see if the descriptions of an entrepreneur resonate with you.

You’re going to apply the 80 percent rule. If 80 percent of what’s described in this chapter defines you, there’s a good chance you’re an entrepreneur at heart.

That’s only the first step, though. In the following chapter, we’ll define an entrepreneur’s six essential traits. At that point, the 100 percent rule will take over. It’s all or nothing from then on. You either have those six traits, or you don’t. Let’s begin now and see if entrepreneurship is your calling.

As the words inscribed above the entrance to the Temple of Apollo at Delphi in ancient Greece put it: “Know thyself.”

THE CHARACTERISTICS OF AN ENTREPRENEUR

An entrepreneur is an idea generator, a dreamer. You have lots of ideas, both good and bad. No one gets it right all of the time. You’re very creative and great at coming up with solutions and improvements, either by creating something new or improving on something that already exists. You’re a learner. You’re curious. You enjoy discovering new things and learning about them. You want to grow, reach, push the envelope. You’re more comfortable with the discomfort of stretching than the contentment of the status quo.

You see the big picture. You’re able to connect the dots, an ability that’s almost a sixth sense. You have street smarts and common sense. Your mind-set is one that’s always thinking about the future. You make decisions from your gut, and they’re usually proven right, or you push hard to make them right.

You’re a great strategic thinker and very persuasive. When you lock in on an objective, nothing stops you. You win people over with your passion and excitement for the project at hand. You’re inspirational to those around you, whether selling them something or getting them to follow you and your thinking.

You’re also passionate and obsessive. When you get focused on an idea, a problem to solve, a product to create, or something to build, you have unlimited energy. Once you see an image in your mind, there’s no stopping you, regardless of whether what you see is actually possible or not. You’re an optimist, and believe every cloud has a silver lining. This is a common entrepreneurial trait.

An entrepreneur has a strong work ethic. You can outwork almost anyone. You lose track of time when you’re focused on accomplishing a goal. You’re driven, ambitious, and self-motivated. A fire burns inside you, and you have a tremendous sense of urgency. A hunger. A desire to be successful. You’re relentless.

You’re financially motivated and want to make a lot of money. Not because you’re greedy, but because you want to provide for your family, yourself, and others. You have a burning desire to be financially independent. It’s unfortunate that wanting to make a lot of money sometimes has a negative connotation. In the early 1900s, many people wanted to be millionaires, and becoming one was respected. My experience is that most entrepreneurs want to make a lot of money, and most are extremely generous with their money. As marketing guru Joe Polish says, “Entrepreneurs solve problems for a profit.”

You have the toughness to stick it out. Angela Duckworth, in her book Grit, defines grit as “passion and perseverance in pursuit of long-term goals.” She makes the point that “success rarely comes about because of intelligence, IQ, or even talent. Grit is the determining factor of success. I’ve never met a true entrepreneur that didn’t have grit. With it comes tenacity, commitment, a strong will, dedication, stubbornness, obstinacy, determination, resiliency, and persistence.”

You tend to be dominant and can be overpowering.

With your strong ambition, you’re naturally competitive. Winning is important to you. You’re hungry and want to be the best, so you’re goal oriented and have a clear sense of urgency.

You have a strong business acumen. You may not necessarily understand a financial statement, but you see the big financial picture. Simply put, you know how to make money and have typically demonstrated this ability since a young age.

Let’s look at an example of this characteristic. When Joe Haney, the founder of Sterling Insurance Group, was thirteen years old, the concrete wall that separated his family’s house from their neighbors’ fell into their yard. It caused quite a big mess. Joe’s dad offered him $2,500 to clean up the huge pile of broken concrete, and Joe agreed to do it. Being an entrepreneur-in-the-making, Joe realized he could hire his friends to do the job and still make a nice profit.

When Joe’s dad came home from work the next day, he saw Joe’s friends removing the collapsed wall and asked Joe, “Why aren’t you doing the work?” Joe replied, “I am.” Joe’s dad laughed with frustration and pride, as he knew he had an entrepreneur-in-the-making on his hands.

If you’re an entrepreneur, your mind works like Joe’s. You see opportunities to make money. Not only that, but you also tended to sell stuff in your younger years, be it lemonade, candy, T-shirts, or whatever.

An entrepreneur is a risk taker, which means that once you see the opportunity, you’ll take the leap, knowing there are no guarantees. You aren’t afraid to challenge the status quo and be a change maker and disrupter.

You’re a rebel by nature and take great pride in that. You aren’t a rule follower. A stop sign to you is merely a suggestion. At the same time, you take total responsibility. While you aren’t afraid to take the ball and run with it, you’re totally accountable for the outcome. You blame no one else if there’s a fumble.

A Geneva Business School article, “5 Tell Tale Signs You’re an Entrepreneur in the Making,” lists the following characteristics:

1.You don’t need to be told what to do.

2.You have hobbies.

3.You act now and beg for forgiveness later.

4.You like to think outside the box.

5.You have fire.

THE CHALLENGING CHARACTERISTICS OF AN ENTREPRENEUR

By now, after reading about all these impressive characteristics, you’re probably thumping your chest and standing in the Superman or Superwoman pose. But don’t get too cocky. There are also some not-so-positive characteristics of entrepreneurs.

You have trouble staying focused and get bored easily. This tends to make you inconsistent. You also tend to be disorganized, a control freak, and a perfectionist. You often have ADD or ADHD, which I’m now convinced is actually a gift. You can be dyslexic; I know many entrepreneurs with dyslexia.

In his book The Hypomanic Edge: The Link Between (a Little) Craziness and (a Lot of) Success in America, John D. Gartner imparts an interesting theory about entrepreneurs. He says, “Part of their M.O. could be considered a form of mania.” Gartner, a psychologist, in his powerful and enlightening book, shows that many of the great entrepreneurs in the past may have been hypomanic. Gartner describes hypomania as a mild form of mania that endows a person with unusual energy, creativity, enthusiasm, and a propensity for taking risks. One notable hypomanic case he cites is Andrew Carnegie, who built the American steel industry.

Gartner explains that the reason there are so many entrepreneurs in America is that most of us are immigrants. It lies in our genes because of our forebears, who had the will, optimism, and daring to leave their countries for the “promised land.”

In addition to the above, entrepreneurs tend to be selfish and very independent. They can have big egos and exhibit narcissistic behaviors.

While your sixth sense makes you a revenue-generating money machine, you aren’t necessarily financially savvy. You tend to spend money just as fast as you make it, and you can’t make sense of a financial statement. I know many successful entrepreneurs who are flat broke after making millions because of this challenge. I was one of them at age thirty-three (more on that in the last chapter).

You may have also been labeled unfocused, learning disabled, a delinquent, or a derelict.

Dan Primack, in his Fortune magazine article “Antisocial Teens More Likely to Become Entrepreneurs,” cites a Swedish study of grade-school kids and their paths to their midforties. It showed that, compared to other kids, male entrepreneurs often go through a stronger rebellious and nonconformist phase in adolescence.

Dr. Edward Hallowell, psychiatrist and former faculty member at Harvard Business School, says in a Success magazine article that the entrepreneurial brain has “pop.” In his formula, pop = grit + imagination + optimism. People who start their own business have “pop.” They never give up. They keep inventing new solutions and believe in the pot of gold. Dr. Hallowell has spent over thirty years working with entrepreneurs around the world. He helps them capitalize on their massive psychological strengths and minimize the carnage that can be wreaked by their weaknesses. Hallowell goes onto say that most entrepreneurs hate introspection, and even more planning. They prefer to operate spontaneously and, as Nike put it, “Just Do It.” Over time, this tendency has led to the demise of many overnight successes.

SUMMARY

So there you have it. That is an entrepreneur in a nutshell. That six-page description can be summarized with one phrase: the entrepreneurial spirit. If this resonates with you, you probably have that spirit.

Now that the description has been laid out, you have to decide if it portrays you or not, applying the 80 percent rule. That is, if you have 80 percent of the qualities I’ve shared in this chapter, you’re probably an entrepreneur-in-the-making.

Assuming you fit the bill, let’s now get real. If you have these characteristics, no matter what your current status is (student, employed, unemployed, stay-at-home-parent, grandparent), you think differently from most people around you and probably always have. As a result, you’re probably facing some psychological issues. You might be feeling, or have always felt, different, scared, uncertain, confused, unclear, or unsure. You may have low self-esteem or feel lost at this point in your life, even if you’re putting a good face on and acting confident for the people around you: your parents, family, and friends. If that’s the case, all of these emotions are normal. You’re normal.

I was feeling every one of them until I was in my thirties, and I put on a good show for everyone. I’m not ashamed to admit I was downright scared. Let’s face it: with the above characteristics, I was basically unemployable.

You shouldn’t let any psychological issues dissuade you from taking stock of yourself and learning if you’re an entrepreneur-in-the-making or not. In other words, you have to separate your emotions from your entrepreneurial characteristics, so you can make the right decision for yourself. If you don’t have at least 80 percent of those characteristics, please don’t take an entrepreneurial leap. That road isn’t right for you.

Now that you know what an entrepreneur looks like—and even better, think you may be one—let’s crystallize the picture by making absolutely sure you have the six essential traits of an entrepreneur.