FRANKLY, BEING DUMPED by Sol and Robert was the saving grace for these stellar women. They showed each other (and any of us who bothered to pay attention) that you are never too old to stop, listen, and learn. Love comes at every age if you let it in. Hearts can be broken and words do matter, so stop, listen, and sometimes, just shhhh. Because grace is often more important than frankness when your very best friend is willing to spend her sunset years watching the sunset sitting next to you—no matter what.