The end of the Revolution was, for both men and nations, a season or reconciliation. If America could repair its relationship with Britain, there was hope that Franklin could do so with his son. “Dear and honored father,” William wrote from England that summer. “Ever since the termination of the unhappy contest between Great Britain and America, I have been anxious to write to you, and to endeavor to revive that affectionate intercourse and connection which, until the commencement of the late troubles, had been the pride and happiness of my life.”
It was a noble and plaintive gesture from a son who had, through it all, never said anything bad about his estranged father nor stopped loving him. But William was still a Franklin, and he could not bring himself to admit that he had been in the wrong, nor to apologize. “If I have been mistaken, I cannot help it. It is an error of judgment that the maturest reflection I am capable of cannot rectify; and I verily believe were the same circumstances to occur again tomorrow, my conduct would be exactly similar to what it was.” He offered to come to Paris, if his father did not want to come to England, so they could settle their issues with “a personal interview.”
Franklin’s response revealed his pain, but it also offered some hints of hope. He began by saying he was “glad to find that you desire to revive the affectionate intercourse,” and he even brought himself to add, “it will be agreeable to me.” Yet he immediately segued from love to anger.
TO WILLIAM FRANKLIN, AUGUST 16, 1784
Dear Son,
I received your letter of the 22d past, and am glad to find that you desire to revive the affectionate intercourse that formerly existed between us. It will be very agreeable to me. Indeed nothing has ever hurt me so much and affected me with such keen sensations, as to find myself deserted in my old age by my only son; and not only deserted, but to find him taking up arms against me, in a cause wherein my good fame, fortune and life were all at stake.
You conceived, you say, that your duty to your king and regard for your country required this. I ought not to blame you for differing in sentiment with me in public affairs. We are men, all subject to errors. Our opinions are not in our power; they are formed and governed much by circumstances that are often as inexplicable as they are irresistible. Your situation was such that few would have censured your remaining neuter, though there are natural duties which precede political ones, and cannot be extinguished by them. This is a disagreeable subject. I drop it. And we will endeavor as you propose mutually to forget what has happened relating to it, as well as we can.
I send your son over to pay his duty to you. You will find him much improved. He is greatly esteemed and beloved in this country, and will make his way anywhere. It is my desire that he should study the law, as a necessary part of knowledge for a public man, and profitable if he should have occasion to practice it. I would have you therefore put into his hands those law-books you have viz. Blackstone, Coke, Bacon, Viner, etc. He will inform you, that he received the letter sent him by Mr. Galloway, and the paper it enclosed, safe. On my leaving America I deposited with that friend for you a chest of papers, among which was a manuscript of 9 or 10 volumes relating to manufactures, agriculture, commerce, finance, etc. Which cost me in England about 70 guineas; and eight quire books containing the rough drafts of all my letters while I lived in London. These are missing. I hope you have got them. If not, they are lost. Mr. Vaughan has published in London a volume of what he calls my political works. He proposes a second edition. But as the first was very incomplete, and you had many things that are omitted, for I used to send you sometimes the rough drafts, and sometimes the printed pieces I wrote in London, I have directed him to apply to you for what may be in your power to furnish him with, or to delay his publication till I can be at home again if that may ever happen. I did intend returning this year, but the Congress, instead of giving me leave to do so, have sent me another commission, which will keep me here at least a year longer, and perhaps I may then be too old and feeble to bear the voyage. I am here among a people that love and respect me, a most amiable nation to live with, and perhaps I may conclude to die among them; for my friends in America are dying off one after another, and I have been so long abroad that I should now be almost a stranger in my own country. I shall be glad to see you when convenient, but would not have you come here at present. You may confide to your son the family affairs you wished to confer upon with me, for he is discreet. And I trust that you will prudently avoid introducing him to company that it may be improper for him to be seen with. I shall hear from you by him, and any letters to me afterwards, will come safe, under cover directed to Mr. Ferdinand Grand, Banker at Paris.
Wishing you Health, and more Happiness than it seems you have lately experienced, I remain,