My two big girls, Sassafrass and Cypress,

Well, looks like you are having a veritable family reunion. I wish I could be there, not just to see you both (which I really would like), but so I could finally be at one of Cypress’ parties! Cypress, you be sure to introduce Sassafrass to some nice young men. She doesn’t get out like she should. And Sassafrass, watch that your sister doesn’t spend up all her money entertaining folks.

Isn’t it wonderful, the two of you together. Cypress doing so well in that dance company and you, Sassafrass, out on your own for a while. I feel relaxed about you for a change. I don’t even get shortness of breath like I used to, thinking about the earthquakes and the drugs out there in California where my two lil babies are all by themselves. Now is a good time for you both to set your minds on a good marriage.

It’s not as hard as you think. Why, you just make up your mind that you are going to find a husband and one’ll come along. I know this from my own experience. I set my mind on that I would be married within a year, and sure enough I was. There’s nothing so heartening as a good provider and companion. And you girls realize, by now, how hard an artist’s life is. So let some nice man help you. Then all you have to worry about is your art. See, I’m not forgetting that you’re both carrying on careers of your own, not at all. So when you have this party, be nice, and gracious. Let them know you’re interested in family life, children, keeping house, and good company. Surely, Cypress, you wouldn’t have all these parties, if you could find yourself a steady beau.

Well, all I have to do this week is a church supper and a Thursday night bridge game. You two have a good time. Mind what I told you. And dress up pretty.

Love,
Mama