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Ackerman, Mona, 17–19, 108, 120, 242–47, 249, 250, 273–74, 282

Adams, Amy, 205, 271

Adams, Franklin Pierce, 34

Affair to Remember, An (movie), 30, 210, 271

AFTRA (American Federation of Television and Radio Artists), 178

Agnelli, Gianni, 137

Agnew, Spiro T., 24, 28, 134

Algonquin Hotel, 52

Algonquin Round Table, 22, 29, 34–35, 68

Allen, Woody, 164, 171

All the President’s Men (Bernstein and Woodward), 123, 132

All the President’s Men (movie), 25, 26, 132–34, 165

Alsop, Joseph, 229, 230

Altman, Robert, 164

Amis, Martin, 275

Angels in America (HBO), 258

Anthony, Susan B., 35

Arbus, Diane, 208

Archie comics, 218

Arendt, Hannah, 68, 231

Arlen, Alice, 165–66, 168, 169, 190, 235, 252, 269

Arlen, Michael, 252

Living-Room War, 166

Armstrong-Jones, Antony, 65

Ashley, Joyce, 18, 278

Associated Press, 178–79

Auletta, Ken, 152, 182, 183, 184, 185, 279

Austen, Jane, 256

Bacall, Lauren “Betty,” 127–28, 252

Lauren Bacall by Myself, 127

Bailey, Lee, 8, 9, 12, 72, 252, 279

Balaban, Bob, 22, 79, 201–2

Baldwin, James, 92

Ballard, Sara, 180

Band of Brothers (TV), 254

Barbarella (movie), 54

Beatles, 65

Beatty, Warren, 167

Beck, Simone, 271

Beech, Keyes, 236, 269

Behrendt, George W., 138

Behrendt, Olive, 138–39

Bellow, Saul, 22, 95

Benjamin, Richard, 122

Benton, Robert, 164

Bergen, Candice, A Fine Romance, 76

Bergman, Ingrid, 111

Berkowitz, Bernard, 121–22

Berlin, Irving, 211, 213

Bernard, Francie, 121

Bernard, Walter, 198

Bernstein, Carl, 20–21, 252

and “Attachment A to Marital Separation Agreement,” 155, 156

breakup with Nora, 146–49, 150–54, 155, 172, 207

as celebrity, 151, 230

and dinner parties, 126–27, 229

and Heartburn, 155–57, 171–72, 173

and Margaret, 144, 146

marriage to Nora, 122–24, 126

meeting Nora, 153–54

and movies, 132–33

and music, 144–45

traveling with, 138, 139, 141, 142

at Washington Post, ix, 20, 21, 25, 26, 90, 156

and Watergate, 21, 25, 26, 90

Bernstein, Jacob (son), xi, 251

documentary about Nora by, 36

and Nora and Carl’s breakup, 149, 150, 156–57, 158, 162

and Nora and Nick’s marriage, 175, 207

and Nora’s illness and death, 117, 279, 280

Nora’s pregnancy with, 7, 125–26

Bernstein, Max (son), xi, 251

birth of, 151, 155–56

and Nora and Carl’s breakup, 149, 150, 156–57, 158, 162

and Nora and Nick’s marriage, 175, 207

and Nora’s illness and death, 279, 280

Bernstein, Sylvia, 123

Bewitched (movie), 6, 118, 216–19, 220

Bewitched (TV), 216–18

Big (movie), 190

Birds, The (movie), 63

Blackglama, 228

Blinder, Abe, 98

Block, Herbert “Herblock,” 60

Bogart, Humphrey, 254

Boies, David and Mary, 76–77

Bonfire of the Vanities, The (movie), 199

Boston Globe, 24

Bosworth, Patricia, 36–37

Boy from Oz, The (musical), 240

Bradlee, Benjamin C.:

and Quinn, 128–29

socializing, 146–47, 184, 252

and Washington Post, 21, 51, 53, 134, 135

Brahms, Johannes, Academic Festival Overture, 16

Brammer, Billy Lee, The Gay Place, 13

Brando, Marlon, 110, 111

Brantley, Ben, 233

Brenner, Marie, 153–54, 264

Breslin, Jimmy, 237, 262

Breyer, Stephen G., 47

Brickman, Marshall, 164

Bridge, Fred, 9

Bridge Kitchenware, 8–9

Bridges of Madison County, The (movie), 201

Brill Building, New York, 13

Brokaw, Meredith, 77

Brokaw, Tom, 77, 277

Broun, Heywood, 34

Brown, David, 23, 99

Brown, Helen Gurley, 23, 87–88, 99–100

Brown, Richard A., 185–86

Buck, Pearl, 228

Buckley, William F., Jr., Overdrive, 106

Bundy, McGeorge, 55–56

Burick, Marcia, 39–40, 101

Burlingham, Bo, 97–99

Burnham, David, 164

Burton, Richard, 63

Burton, Sybil, 63–64

Caddell, Patrick, 83

Cagney, James, xi, 191

Callahan, James, 143–44

Callender, Colin, 239, 257, 281

Capshaw, Kate, 12, 236

Captain Newman, M.D. (movie), 36

Caputo, Lisa, 12

Carden, Jennifer, 43, 45–46, 49

Carnelia, Craig, 233

Carroll, Diahann, 221

Carson, Johnny, 22, 67

Carter, Graydon, 275

Carter, Jimmy, 83

Carter, Rosalynn, 128

Casablanca (movie), 35, 193

Casino (movie), 181–82

Catch-22 (movie), 112, 115, 122, 201–2

Cavett, Dick, 116, 119, 227–28

CBS Morning News (TV), 128, 129–30

Charlie Rose (TV), 222

Cheever, John, 191

Chekhov, Anton, 135

Cher, 166

Cherry, Sheldon, 7

Chicago Daily News, 236

Chicago Sun-Times, 173, 189

Child, Julia, 272

Mastering the Art of French Cooking, 271

Child, Paul, 271, 272

Chisholm, Shirley, 93–94

Chopra, Deepak, 244

Christmas, 211–13, 251

Christopher, Jordan, 63–64

Claiborne, Craig, 9

Clark, Mae, 191

Clinton, Bill, 73

Clooney, George, 236, 239

Cohen, Pearl, 249, 250

Cohn, Sam, 163–64, 165–67, 168, 189, 198, 215–16

Collins, Gail, 263

Collins, Wilkie, The Moonstone, 13

Congress for Cultural Freedom, 228

Cooper Union, New York, 274–76

Corman, Avery, 118–19, 120, 189

Corman, Judy, 52, 118–20, 219, 252

Cosmopolitan, 23, 87, 100

Couples, 21

Craig, Daniel, 239

Creative Artists Agency, 215

Cronyn, Hume, 13

Crum, Bartley, 37

Crystal, Billy, 188, 190, 192, 193

Cuisinart food processor, 9

Culkin, Macaulay, 164

David and Lisa (movie), 70

Davis, Al, 58

Davis, Geena, 221–22

Day, Doris, xi, 64

Death of a Salesman (drama), 273

Dee, Sandra, 158

Deitl, Bo, 278

Democratic National Committee, 21, 26, 90

Democratic National Convention (1972), 93

De Niro, Robert, 167

Diaz, Linda, 14, 15

Didion, Joan, 70

Dietrich, Marlene, 222

Diller, Barry, 82, 91–92

Disney, Walt, 209

Dispatch News Service, 132

Doc (movie), 70

Doctorow, E. L., 164

Dos Passos, John, 92

Douglas, Helen Gahagan, 26

Douglas, Kirk, 64

Dreyfuss, Richard, 167

Dudar, Helen, The Attentive Eye, 66

Dunaway, Faye, 70

Dunham, Lena, 4

Dunne, John Gregory, 70

Durante, Jimmy, 210

Dutton, Fred and Nancy, 144

Dwyer, Jim, 262

Eastwood, Clint, 201

Ebert, Roger, 173, 189

Eisenberg, Lee, 88

Eisenhower, Dwight D., 26, 35

Eisenstein, Rabbi Ira, 69

Elaine’s, New York, 52, 182

Elliott, Osborn, 50, 54

Englander, Nathan, 3–4

Ephron, Amy (sister), 185, 212, 279

Ephron, Delia (sister), 85

childhood of, 31, 38

and Nora’s illness and death, 248, 279, 280

socializing, 185, 212

as writing partner, xi, 189, 198, 214, 215, 217, 218, 248

Ephron, Hallie (sister), 105, 212, 279

Ephron, Henry (father):

death of, 37, 152

drinking, 32, 48, 269–70

in Hollywood, 29–31, 35–36, 157, 226

in New York, 33–34

philandering, 36, 39

and Phoebe’s death, 37

and Red Scare, 226

Take Her, She’s Mine, 44, 158

violence of, 37

We Thought We Could Do Anything, 30–31, 36

as writer, 29–31, 35, 43, 44

Ephron, Nora:

on aging, 220–24, 278

as author, see Ephron, Nora, writings of

author’s introduction to, ix, 27–28

and Carl, see Bernstein, Carl

childhood of, 30, 31–32, 39

and Dan, see Greenburg, Dan

death of, 19, 77, 117, 208, 247, 251, 280

dinner parties of, 69–70, 71–74, 78–80, 115, 126–27, 141, 185, 211–13, 232, 265

as director, 6–7, 10, 166, 168–69, 173, 190, 196–201, 202, 210, 214–19, 270; see also specific movies

dying, 1–4, 11–12, 14, 17–19, 116–17, 224, 241, 242–47, 248–52, 256–57, 263–64, 265, 266, 273–82

as editor, 135, 136

family background of, 38–39

and friendship, 81, 111, 118, 229, 263

and Jewishness, 105–8

memorial service for, 180, 275, 279–81

and motherhood, xi, 149, 152, 157, 161–62, 207; see also Bernstein, Jacob; Bernstein, Max

and music, 267–68, 270

and Nick, see Pileggi, Nicholas

and paradoxes, 267–72

productivity of, 14–15

reputation of, 99

rise to fame, 22, 90, 220–21

roles of, 10–11

as salonnière, 68, 69–70, 71, 78–79, 105, 127

talent of, 66, 69

toughness of, 83–86, 159

traveling with, 137–42

at Wellesley, 42–49, 158, 231

and womanhood, 5–8, 11

Ephron, Nora, writings of:

“A Few Words About Breasts,” 7, 89–91, 94–96, 130, 158, 223

and now . . . Here’s Johnny!, 67

author’s voice in, 22, 63

“Baby,” 7–8

blogs for Huffington Post, 16, 241

bylines, 65–66

clip jobs, 64–65

“Crabs,” 158–59

“Eating and Sleeping with Arthur Frommer,” 62

feature stories, 66

“Helen Gurley Brown Only Wants to Help,” 100

Higgins and Beech, 207, 235–36, 254–55, 269

I Feel Bad About My Neck, 118, 220–24

Imaginary Friends, 68, 207, 210, 226, 232–34, 239, 258

I Remember Nothing, 31, 246, 251–52, 256

and the lede, 15–16

“The Legend,” 33

Lost in Austen, 241, 256, 266

Love, Loss, and What I Wore, 207, 239

Lucky Guy, 47, 207, 218, 237–41, 253–59, 262, 266, 273, 281

“The Mink Coat,” 43, 44

“mouseburger” story, 88

“Mush,” 89, 99

op-ed columns, 16

at the Post, 62–67

process in, 15–17

“Reunion,” 101

“Revision and Life: Take It from the Top Again,” 15

screenplays, see specific movies

Scribble, Scribble, 153

venues for, 17

Wallflower at the Orgy, 22, 23, 27, 91

“Where Bookmen Meet to Eat,” 150

“Women in Israel: The Myth of Liberation,” 103–4, 106–8

Ephron, Phoebe (mother):

career of, x, 33, 36, 43

and children, 31–33

death and dying of, x, 32, 36, 37

as drinker, x, 3, 31, 32, 33, 37–39, 269–70

family background of, 38–39, 177

in Hollywood, 29, 30–31, 35–36, 157–58, 226

Howie, 36–37

letters to Nora, 43–44

and Red Scare, 226

Take Her, She’s Mine, 44, 158

visit to Wellesley, 43, 44, 48

as writer, x, 29–31, 35–36, 44

Epstein, Julius, 35

Erickson, Don, 88

Esquire, 7, 10, 15, 22, 27, 87–89, 92–95, 97–99, 101–2, 128

Falkner, William, 30

Felker, Clay, 21, 22–23, 129, 229

feminism, x, 8, 35, 55, 93, 130, 168, 217

Fenstermaker, BeeBee (nickname), 104–5, 213

Ferrell, Will, 216

Fest, Joachim, Not I, 254

Fitzgerald, F. Scott, 30, 92, 95

Fonda, Jane, 53, 225

Fontana, Tom, 203

Foote, Horton, 169

Ford, Betty, 128

Fosse, Bob, 164

Fox, Joe, 85, 160–61, 176, 177, 178, 252, 276

Fraser, Antonia, 127

Freud, Sigmund, 276

Friedman, Budd, 119

Fritchey, Clayton, 40

Frommer, Arthur, 62

From the Earth to the Moon (TV), 254

Front Page, The (play), 238

Furman, Roy, 47–49

Gable, Clark, 253

Gale, June, 37

Gallin, Sandy, 244

Gandhi, Mohandas K. “Mahatma,” 42

Gardiner, Muriel, 225, 230

Garten, Ina, 264–66

Garten, Jeffrey, 264

Geffen, David, 11, 76, 81, 112, 141, 247, 249

George & Martha (TV pilot), 248

Get Shorty (movie), 215

Geyelin, Philip L., 129, 131

Gilder, George, Naked Nomads, 164

Gingrich, Arnold, 94–95, 97, 98

Glaser, Milton, 198

Gleason, Jackie, 65, 163–64

Gobel, George, 64

Godfather, The (movie), 181

Goldberg, Whoopi, 163

Goldman, Peter, 56, 66

Goldman, William, 134, 165

Goldstein, Ken, 39–40

Goldwater, Barry, 54

Goodfellas (movie), 181–82

Goodman, Walter, 173

Goodwin, Richard N. “Dick,” 97–98

Gottlieb, Robert, 81, 150–51, 152, 153, 220, 223

Graduate, The (movie), 112

Graham, Donald, 229

Graham, Katharine, 51, 54–55, 131, 137, 229

Graham, Philip L., 51

Grant, Cary, 30, 238, 254, 271

Grant, Lee, 197

Gravano, Salvatore “Sammy the Bull,” 181

Greenburg, Dan, 67, 122

comedy act of, 119, 189

and dinner parties, 70, 127

and Heartburn, 159–60

How to Be a Jewish Mother, 21, 69

“My First Orgy,” 23, 27

and Nora, 21–23, 52, 69–71, 85, 159

Greenburg, Nora (nom de plume), 62

Greenfield, Meg, 131

Gregory, Dick, 64

Griffin, Merv, 119

Groom, Winston, 252

Groopman, Jerome, 244, 247

Grossman, Lynn, 79, 122, 202, 212

Grunwald, Henry, 279

Grunwald, Louise, 279

Guare, John, 164

Guber, Lee, 23

Hall, Evelyn, 31

Hamill, Pete, 59, 70, 260

Hamilton, Alexander, 60

Hamlisch, Marvin, 213, 232, 233

Hamm, John, 240, 255

Hammett, Dashiell, 225, 231, 234

Hanging Up (movie), 214–15

Hanks, Tom, 111, 190–92, 202, 217

and Bonfire of the Vanities, 199

and dinner parties, 73, 184, 252

and McAlary/Lucky Guy, 238, 239, 240, 253–57

and Nora’s memorial, 180, 280, 281

and Sleepless in Seattle, 6, 190–92, 198, 199, 200, 255, 271

and You’ve Got Mail, 171, 177, 200, 253

Hardison, Kadeem, 6

Harper’s, 23, 156

Harpies, The, 12

Hart, Gary, 94

Hart, Moss, 33

Hartley, L. P., 46

Harwood, Richard, 145

Hayes, Eddie, 238, 262

Hayes, Harold, 88

HBO, 239, 248

Heartburn (Ephron/book):

characters in, 141, 146

and controversy, 156–57, 159–60

and dinner parties, 139, 140, 147

humor/anger in, 90, 129, 147, 188

publication of, 153, 155, 182

sales of, 223

success of, 123, 155, 220

Heartburn (movie), 9, 85, 155–56, 157, 161–62, 170–74, 217

Hecht, Ben, 238

Hedren, Tippi, 62–63

Heffner, Hugh, 22

Heller, Joseph, Catch-22, 112

Hellman, Lillian, 225–32

blacklisting of, 231

HUAC testimony of, 227, 230, 231

and Imaginary Friends, 68, 226, 234, 258

Pentimento, 225, 230

Hemingway, Ernest, 32, 59, 92, 95, 104

Henry, Buck, 70

Hersh, Seymour, 132–33

Higgins, Marguerite, 235–36, 238, 269

Hill, George Roy, 132

Hill, Henry, 180, 181

His Girl Friday (movie), 238

Hitchcock, Alfred, 63

Hitchens, Christopher, 274–75

Hitch-Hiker, The (movie), 196

Hitler, Adolf, 113, 225

Hoffman, Dustin, 133, 171

Hoffman, Philip Seymour, 239

Hoge, James, 165

Hoge, Warren, 23

Hollywood:

blacklist, 34, 37, 83, 231

female directors in, 6–7, 166–67, 173, 190, 196–201, 202

writers in, 29, 30

Hollywood Ten, 37

Holocaust, 34, 38

Honsa, Carol, 20

Hoover, J. Edgar, 54

Horowitz, Craig, 160

House Un-American Activities Committee (HUAC), 26, 37, 226, 227, 230, 231

Howar, Barbara, 23

Howard, Roy, 60

Howie (play), 36–37

Huffington Post, 16

ICM, 215

I Married a Witch (movie), 217

Improv, Manhattan, 119, 189

Irving, David, 275

Irving, John, 252

“Fox Here,” 161

Isham, Jennifer Maguire, 12

Ives, Burl, 209

Jackman, Hugh, 240, 256

Jaws (movie), 72

Jay, Margaret, 143–44, 145–46, 151, 157

Jay, Peter, 143, 145, 146

Joe Versus the Volcano (movie), 191

Johnson, Lyndon B., 13, 54, 65, 97

journalism:

and access, 110–11

as a job, 58–59

author as columnist, 134–36, 176, 188, 194

clip jobs, 64

feminism in, 130

gender discrimination in, 54–55

magazines, 10, 87, 98

observers in, 114

rules in, 61

smug righteousness of, 11, 53

triumphant, 10, 24–25, 102

war correspondents, 104, 108

Juanita (pen pal), 203–5

Julia (movie), 225

Julie & Julia (movie), 173, 174, 183, 205, 236, 266, 268, 271–72

Just, Ward, 52–53

Kael, Pauline, 133

Kass, Jerome, 185, 212

Kaufman, Elaine, 52, 182

Kaufman, George S., 31, 33–34, 36

Kavner, Julie, 189, 190

Keach, Stacy, 70

Keane, Margaret, 89

Kearns, Doris, 97–98

Keaton, Diane, 79, 215

Keller, Thomas, 140

Kempton, Murray, 58, 135, 237

Kennedy, Edward M. “Ted,” 97

Kennedy, John F., 26, 40, 51, 58, 97, 107–8, 229

and Making of the President, 102

Newsweek profile of, 54, 56

Kennedy, Robert F., 54, 97

Kenyatta, Jomo, 54

Kerr, Deborah, 271

Kidman, Nicole, 216, 217

King, Rev. Martin Luther, Jr., 46

Kogan, Deborah Copaken, Shutterbabe, 81

Kosner, Edward, 57

Kramer vs. Kramer (movie), 118

Kseniak, Beth, 12

Kudrow, Lisa, 268

Lahr, John, 114

Lake, Veronica, 217

Lansing, Sherry, 198

Lapine, James, 265

Larry Crowne (movie), 255

Latham, Aaron, 21, 22–23, 27

“Lavender’s Blue” (song), 209–11

Lawrenson, Helen:

“A Few Words on Fellatio,” 92

“Latins Are Lousy Lovers,” 92

Lazar, Samuel “Swifty,” 169

Lear, Norman, 252

Lee, Peggy, 241

Leighton, Isabel, ed., The Aspirin Age, 254

Lelouch, Claude, 191

Leo, John, 79

Lerner, Max, 58

LeRoy, Warner, 252

Lessing, Doris, 263

Letterman, David, 13

Levant, Oscar, 37

Levett, Michael, 90, 91

Levy, Emanuel, 214–15

Lewinsky, Monica, 73

Lincoln, Abraham, 274

Lindsay, John V., 260

Los Angeles Times, 24

Lospalutto, Christopher, 221, 277–78

Lotkin, Kate, 38, 39

Lotkin, Louis, 38

Louima, Abner, 237, 239

Lourd, Bryan, 215, 216, 239, 256–57, 258, 266

Love Affair (movie), 271

Love Me or Leave Me (movie remake), xi

Lucky Numbers (movie), 215, 268–69

Luedtke, Kurt, 252

Lumet, Sidney, 252

Lupino, Ida, 196

Lyons, Leonard, 58, 67

MacArthur, Charles, 238

Mad Men (TV), 255

Mailer, Norman, 21, 92

Malle, Louis, 164

Mandel, Marvin, 134, 136

Maraniss, David, They Marched into Sunlight, 254

March, Fredric, 217

Margaret, Princess, 64

Mark, Laurence, 266

Marshall, Penny, 187, 201

Martin, Steve, 73, 111, 199–200, 214, 245

Marx Brothers, 36

Matthiessen, Peter, 161

May, Elaine, 112, 113

McAlary, Mike, 218, 237–40, 242, 253, 255, 257–58, 261–62, 263

McCall’s, 42, 87

McCarthy, Jeanne, 12

McCarthy, Joseph, 230

McCarthy, Mary, 226–28, 230

The Group, 231

and Imaginary Friends, 68, 226, 234

McCarthy era, 34, 60, 83–84, 226–27, 230

McCauley, James, 3

McCormack, John, 54

McEwan, Ian, 275

McFadden, Cynthia, 12

McGovern, George, 25–26, 90, 93, 94

McKelway, St. Clair, 32

McKuen, Rod, 88, 89

McNamara, Robert S., 54

Medavoy, Mike, 191

Meet the Press, 185

Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, 241, 246

Meyer, Eugene, 51

Miami Herald, 24

Michael (movie), 214, 215

Michaels, Lorne, 33

Midonick, Millard L., 123

Miller, Arthur, 164

Minnelli, Liza, 163

Mixed Nuts (movie), 6, 199–200, 214, 245

Moley, Raymond, 54

Monocle, 51–52, 58, 65

Moore, Demi, 197

More, 24, 99

Morris, Willie, 23, 252

Mostel, Zero, 163

Ms., 87, 163–64, 165, 168

Murdoch, Rupert, 229

Murray, Bill, 189

Mussolini, Benito, 178

Nation, 226

National Review, 106

Navasky, Anne, 52, 67, 252

Navasky, Victor, 51–52, 58, 60, 65, 69, 252

Nehru, Jawaharlal, 42

Nesbit, Lynn, 52

New Deal, 35, 60

Newfield, Jack, 260

Newhart, Bob, 201–2

Newman, Mildred, 121–22, 152, 159–60

Newman, Paul, 163

Newsday, 237

Newsweek, 10, 16, 49, 53–56

clip jobs in, 64

gender discrimination in, 54–55

Nora as mail girl for, 50–51, 55

Nora as researcher for, 55, 56

Nora’s first story for, 56

New York:

magical nights in, 212

newspaper strike in, 57–58

Nora’s move to, 52, 148–49, 150, 151, 182

writers in, 29–30

New York, 10, 87, 101, 198

and Felker, 21, 23, 129, 229

and Nora’s loss to Quinn, 129

and Watergate, 25, 90

and Yom Kippur War, 103, 104, 106

New York Aquarium, 62

New York Daily News, 263

New Yorker, 14, 32, 49, 133, 161, 183, 191, 244

New York Herald Tribune, 34, 53, 236

New York Hospital, 246, 248–50, 278, 279

New York Post, 10, 22, 23, 259, 265

Nora’s job at, 57–67, 237, 261

“Woman in the News,” 63

New York Times, 7, 9, 23, 24, 34, 37, 61, 87, 97, 107, 132, 173, 220, 233, 234, 265

New York Times Book Review, 150, 226

New York Times Magazine, 112, 122

Nichols, Mike, 112–17

and Catch-22, 112, 115, 122, 201

and Cohn, 164, 166, 167

and dinner parties, 70, 112, 115–16

and friendship, 81, 111, 112, 113, 115–16, 151

and Heartburn, 155, 156, 162, 172

and Hellman, 231–32

and Imaginary Friends, 232

and McAlary/Lucky Guy, 240, 258

and Nora as director, 166–67, 168–69, 196

and Nora’s illness and death, 116–17, 249, 273, 277, 280

and Silkwood, 166, 167, 168–69

talent of, 114, 201

Nicholson, Jack, 167, 172, 173

Nimer, Stephen D., 18, 278

Nissenson, Marilyn, The Lady Upstairs, 57

Nixon, Richard M., 21, 24, 25–26, 90, 98, 134, 230

Nora Ephron Repertory Company, 189

Norton, Ed, 239

O’Brien, Jack, 232–33

Obst, David, 132

Obst, Lynda, 133, 198, 216

O’Donnell, Rosie, 13, 280

Oh, God! (movie), 119

Oprah Winfrey Show, The (TV), 221–24, 279

Pakula, Alan, 26, 132–33, 252

Paltrow, Gwyneth, 252

Paolucci’s, New York, 260–61

Paramount Pictures, 155, 170

Parker, Dorothy, x, 34–35

Partisan Review, 227

Parton, Dolly, 90–91

Pascal, Amy, 198

Patinkin, Mandy, 172

Patterson, Jennifer, 212

Pavarotti, Luciano, 268

Peer, Liz, 50

Penn, Arthur, 132, 164

Penn, Sean, 239

Perkins, Maxwell, 22

Perkins, Tony, 121, 122

Perl, Maurie, 12

Peron, Eva, 75

Perry, Frank, 70, 71

Pesci, Joe, 181, 182

Philadelphia (movie), 190

Philadelphia Inquirer, 24

Phillips, B. J., 168

Pileggi, Nicholas, ix–x, 175–86, 254

family background of, 177–78

marriage of Nora and, 15, 81, 170–71, 175–76, 185–86, 207, 212, 251–52, 261–62, 272

meeting of Nora and, 182–83

and the Mob, 179–80, 181, 183, 262

and Nora’s illness and death, 279, 280, 281

and Paolucci’s, 260–61

socializing, 11

Wiseguy, 180

as writing partner, xi

Pileggi, Nicholas (father), 177

Pileggi, Susan (mother), 177–78

Pill, The, 53

Pinter, Harold, 127

Playboy, 69, 100

Playboy Magazine Writers Conference, 21–22, 69

Plimpton, George, 161

Pogrebin, Abigail, Stars of David, 107

Pollack, Sydney, 132

Portis, Charles, 52–53

Poston, Theodore Roosevelt, 60

Povich, Lynn, 55

Powell, Julie, 271

Cleaving: A story of Marriage, Meat, and Obsession, 272

Prentiss, Paula, 122

Presley, Elvis, 120

Public Theater, New York, xi, 258

Quaid, Dennis, 184

Quinn, Gen. William “Buffalo Bill,” 141

Quinn, Sally, 141, 166, 189

on being blond, 130

and Bradlee, 128–29

and CBS Morning News, 128, 129–30

socializing with, 146–47, 252, 264

and Washington Post, 23, 128, 129, 130

“We’re Going to Make You a Star,” 129

and When Harry Met Sally, 187

Rahv, Philip, 227

Rauh, Joseph, Jr., 227

Reagan, Ronald, 106

Redford, Robert, 132–33

Red Scare, 26, 37, 226

Reed, Rex, 121

Reiner, Estelle, 193

Reiner, Rob, 187–88, 192, 193, 195

Remnick, David, 244

Resnick, Adam, 268

Rich, Frank, 264–65

Ridgeway, James, 27

Rinaldi, Nicholas D., 136

Robards, Jason, 134

Robb, Lynda Bird and Charles, 65

Rockefeller, David, 246

Rockefeller, Nelson A., 54

Roiphe, Katie, The Violet Hour, 276

Rolling Stone, 24, 27

Roosevelt, Franklin D., 35, 60

Rose, Marshall, 76

Ross, Lillian, 32–33

Rossellini, Roberto, 111

Roth, Ann, 166, 168, 169

Rudd, Hughes, 129

Rudin, Scott, 84, 117, 248–49

Rushdie, Salman, 275

Russell, Rosalind, 238

Russert, Tim, 186

Ryan, Meg, 184, 189, 207, 252

and Higgins and Beech, 236

and Joe Versus the Volcano, 191

and Sleepless in Seattle, 190, 191, 200, 202, 253, 271

and When Harry Met Sally, 188, 190, 192–93, 194

and You’ve Got Mail, 171, 200, 253

Sacha, J.J., 13–14, 237, 249, 277, 278, 280

Safire, William, 24

St. Clair, James, 98

Salon, 218

Salter, James, 161

A Sport and a Pastime, 276

Sann, Paul, 59

Sarandon, Susan, 222

Sarton, May, 45–46

Saturday Night Live (TV), 33

Saturday Review, 94

Saving Private Ryan (movie), 236, 254

Sawyer, Diane, 112, 222

Scheider, Roy, 163

Scheinman, Andy, 188

Schell, Maximilian, 222

Schiff, Dorothy, 57, 58, 60, 61, 62, 67, 101, 158

Schiff, Jacob, 60

Schlesinger, Arthur, 22

Schlink, Bernhard, 114

Schumacher, Joel, 122

Scorsese, Martin, 181

Segal, Erich, 210

Love Story, 88, 89

Seidel, Frederick, “Remembering Elaine’s,” 182

Sheehy, Gail, 60, 101

She Loves Me (musical), 271

Sherr, Lynn, 44–45, 49, 63, 94, 106

Shop Around the Corner, The (movie), 270

Short, Marty, 81, 280

Short, Nancy Dolman, 81

Siegal, Peggy, 12

Silkwood, Karen, 163, 164–65, 167–69

Silkwood (movie), 165–69, 182, 198, 207

Simon, Neil, 121

The Goodbye Girl, 167

Sleepless in Seattle (movie), 133, 253

and Hanks, 190–92, 198, 199, 200, 202, 255, 271

Nora as director on, 6, 30, 183, 189, 197–99, 200, 202, 205, 210, 236, 271

Nora as screenwriter on, 169, 205

sound track of, 210, 267

success of, 214, 236

and Ward, 197–98

Sloan, Bonnie, 42–43, 105–6

Smith, Betty, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, 109–10

Smith, Jean Kennedy, 246

Smith, Liz, 12, 114, 152, 278

Smith, Will, 173

Snider, Stacey, 198

Snyder, William, The Days and Nights of BeeBee Fenstermaker, 104–5

So Dear to My Heart (movie), 209

Sokolow, Diane, 189, 279

Sokolow, Sandy, 129

Some Like It Hot (movie), 113

Sontag, Susan, 18, 276

Sony Pictures, 183, 216, 236

Sophie’s Choice (movie), 167

Spielberg, Sasha, 206, 207, 208

Spielberg, Steven, 12, 72, 111, 184, 200, 203, 218, 236, 247

Spitzler, Robert, 61

Stalin, Joseph, 226, 228

Stanton, Elizabeth Cady, 35, 167

Starr, Ken, 73

Steel, Dawn, 198

Steinbeck, John, 228

Steinem, Gloria, 55, 164

Stern, Isaac, 252

Sterne, Patti, 90–91

Stevenson, Adlai E., 35, 40

Stewart, James, 254

Stone, Lucy, 35

Stone, Peter, 252

Stoppard, Tom, 275

Stories About McAlary (film property), 218, 255

Streep, Meryl, 14–15, 189, 233

and Cohn, 163, 166

and Heartburn, 172, 173–74

and Julie and Julia, 173, 174, 205, 236, 271

on Nora as director, 173, 200–201

and Nora’s memorial, 280

and Silkwood, 165, 167–68, 169

Stringer, Howard, 182–83, 212–13, 268, 270

Stringer, Jennifer, 182

Stubbs, Barbara, 20, 28, 90, 121, 145, 149, 151, 185, 186

marriage breakup, 152–53

Sullivan, Ed, 111

Take Her, She’s Mine (play), 44, 158

Talese, Gay, 22, 92, 178

Tauger, Hallie Ephron, 212

Tauger, Molly, 212

Taylor, Elizabeth, 63

Thanksgiving, 211–12, 251

Thatcher, Margaret, 143

The Thin Man (TV), 269

This Is My Life (movie), 189–90, 207, 214

Thomas, Evan, Sr., 150

Time, 51, 52, 54, 64, 102

Tomlin, Lily, 163

Toohey, John Peter, 34

Toute une vie [And Now My Love] (movie), 191

Travolta, John, 173, 214, 215, 268

Trillin, Calvin “Bud,” 22, 52, 60, 203

Tripp, Linda, 73

Unger, Rusty, 148

United Press International, 110, 178

Urban, Amanda “Binky” [Auletta], 52, 81, 152, 182, 183, 184, 185, 279

Urban, Margo, 278

Vanity Fair, 75, 156, 275

Vargas, Alberto, 93

Variety, 214

Varnhagen, Rahel, 68

Vidal, Gore, 21–22

Vietnam War, 20, 53

Village Voice, 27, 183

Vonnegut, Kurt, 22

Vox, Tristan (nom de plume), 156

Wakefield, Dan, 58

Walsh, Mary Pat, 14, 216

Walters, Barbara, 12, 18, 23, 233, 252

Ward, David S., 197–98

Warner, Jack, 35

Washington, D.C., Nora in, 125–28, 131

Washington Post, 24, 60

and All the President’s Men, 133, 134

author’s work with, ix, 20, 65, 95, 111, 127, 136, 194

and Bernstein, ix, 20, 21, 25, 26, 90, 156

and Bradlee, 21, 51, 53, 134, 135

and Quinn, 23, 128, 129, 130

and Watergate, 21, 25, 26, 90

Watergate, 21, 25–26, 90

Wechsler, James, 59

Wellesley College, 42–49, 101, 106, 158, 231

Wellesley College News, 44–45, 106

West, Nathanael, The Day of the Locust, 30

What’s My Line? (TV), 72

When Harry Met Sally (movie), 245

cast of, 190

iconic line in, 193

Nora as screenwriter on, 169, 188, 192

as “Nora Ephron movie,” 194–95, 215, 236

and Reiner, 187–88, 192, 193, 195

theme of, 116, 187, 188

White, Theodore H., The Making of the President 1960, 102

“White Christmas” (song), 211, 213

Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf? (movie), 31, 112

Wiatt, Jim, 198, 215, 216

Wieseltier, Leon, 156

Wilder, Billy, 113

William Morris, 215, 216

Williams, G. Mennen, 52

Williams, Robin, 163

Willis, Bruce, 197

Wilson, Edmund, 227

Wilson, Rita, 190, 202, 252, 267

and Mixed Nuts, 6, 199

and Nora’s illness, 263–64

and Nora’s memorial, 180, 280, 281

and Sleepless in Seattle, 199

Winfrey, Oprah, 221–22, 223–24, 279

Winkler, Irwin, 181

Witchel, Alex, 264, 265

Witcover, Jules, 134

Witherspoon, Reese, 241

Wolfe, George, 257–58, 260, 261, 281

Wolfe, Tom, 52–53, 92

Wolkind, Harold, 38

Wolkind, Louis, 38

Wolkind, Phoebe, see Ephron, Phoebe

Wolkind, Richard “Dickie,” 38

Woodard, Alfre, 222

Woodward, Bob, 21, 25, 26, 27, 28, 121, 132–34, 181

Woolf, Virginia, 263

Woollcott, Alexander, 34

Writers Guild Pen Pal project, 203–5

Wynn, Elaine, 76–77

Yom Kippur War, 103–4, 106–8

“You Made Me Love You” (song), 210

You’ve Got Mail (movie), 210

Hanks and Ryan in, 171, 177, 200, 253

Nora as director of, 13, 148, 171, 199, 200, 205, 214, 236

sources of, 270–71

Yusupov, Prince Felix, 265, 267

Zabar, Rachel, 171

Zacharek, Stephanie, 218

Ziegfeld, Florence, Jr. “Flo,” 31

Zion, Sidney, 58

Zuckerman, Mortimer, 47