Day 31: Balancing It All

Love never fails.

1 CORINTHIANS 13:8

BEING A LOVING WIFE, being an intentional parent, caring for our homes, and taking care of all the other commitments we hold close can seem impossible to balance.

I have a tendency to put each commitment in a figurative box and focus solely on that particular commitment. When I work only on that single box, I neglect everything else. But if I see life as a whole, I can see the puzzle pieces of life emerge into a picture of meaningful connectedness.

Life becomes a routine made up of the little intentional things I choose to do throughout the day. I focus on one day at a time, leaning into faith and keeping my mind on the hope that is at the end of my journey. I choose to forgo perfection.

What keeps a household running well and in balance? Love.

Instead of striving to be a perfect wife, I will choose to kiss my husband before he leaves for work.

Instead of striving to be a perfect mother, I will choose to giggle with my kiddos throughout the day.

Instead of striving to accomplish my ideals, I will choose instead to let them gently guide me.

Instead of striving to change myself, I will choose to let the living Word of God change me from the inside out according to His timing and plan. I’ll just keep my eyes on Him.

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Mary Challenge

coffee cupREAD PSALM 16:8

What happens when we keep our focus on God?

Kiss your husband, giggle with your kiddos, and do a happy dance!

notepadMARTHA CHALLENGE

REST. YOU’VE DONE A GREAT JOB!

bedAnd then after you rest, begin again. Here’s to (mostly) clean homes that are filled with love!