A kind word is like a priceless gem kept below the blankets at the back of a packed closet: worthless if hidden. When you horde nuggets of praise, you deprive your children of the opportunity to learn that it’s as delightful to give encouragement as it is to receive it. Praise-giving delights the heart.

Sadly, many parents grew up in homes where encouraging words were kept tightly boxed under lock and key. For whatever reason, you may have been denied that “Great job!” or “Way to go!” that would have meant so much to you. Today you have amassed amazing accomplishments and yet feel your achievements are unnoticed. Your kids might feel the same way. Turn inside-out the pattern of disinterest. Give your kids the good words they deserve.

Remind them that God sees and cares too. Their heavenly Father rejoices at every triumph even if you can’t be there. As parents you have the privilege of giving kids the tangible touch of gentle words. When you uplift and encourage, they can reach heights they never imagined.

So open your eyes to their wonderful gifts and talents. Then string together bright thoughts to form strands of praise. Watch these jeweled creations stretch and expand. Soon your kids will start building some of their own praise strands to give away. Tell your children when they’ve done a great job making their beds, helping with dinner, or completing their schoolwork.

Opportunities are boundless when you look for ways to say, “Well done. You’re a terrific kid.” You, too, will have a reward when you walk the shiny path of praise and hear your children calling you “blessed.” But it all begins with you.